Recently, a good friend called me in a near-panic: “I’m having eight friends over tomorrow night—what in the world should I make for that many people?” I’ve been there, and it can be tough to think of dinner party menu ideas that are elevated and elegant for your evening crowd. Especially if you don’t want to spend all day in the kitchen and/or lose your mind in the process.

But thanks to the fact that I started my career in catering (combined with the countless dinner parties I’ve thrown over the years), I’ve assembled quite a collection of dinner party menu ideas to feed a crowd that check all my required boxes. All of these dinner party recipes are:

• Crowd-pleasing dishes that almost everyone loves.
• Leverage large-batch cooking, like a sheet pan or grill, so that I’m not laboriously sautéing 16 individual fish fillets or frying 12 eggs to top salads.
• And most importantly, I can do almost all the prep in advance so that by the time my guests arrive, I can join the party with them.

28 Dinner Party Menu Ideas Any Crowd Will Love

I divided this post into recipes that I make for dinners with 4-6 guests (due to the cooking techniques, or the fact that they incorporate pricier ingredients), and the recipes that are really easy to double or triple to feed a true crowd. These leverage larger cuts of meat, build-your-own components that let guests adapt to their dietary needs, and less expensive ingredients so your party budget doesn’t get out of control.

The next time you find yourself hosting an evening get-together and wondering what to make, bookmark this post for easy dinner party menu ideas. Trust me: all these recipes will leave your dinner guests happy, satisfied, and waiting for when their next invite arrives in the mail.

Dinner Party Menu Ideas for 4-6 Guests

Citrus Salmon Salad With Avocado & Arugula

What makes it party-ready: I love a casual weeknight gathering. An impromptu evening inspired by the alignment of beautiful weather and everyone’s open schedule. But just because it’s laidback doesn’t mean the menu can’t be special. This vibrant citrus salmon salad is a foolproof crowd-pleaser—and comes together in just 30 minutes. The dressing features orange zest and a kick of ginger, giving the entire dish a beautiful fresh flavor that epitomizes warm-weather entertaining.

Make it a feast: Keeping with the theme of elegant ease, I’ll serve this salad alongside a cheeseboard and chilled glasses of strawberry-rosé sangria. For dessert? Mini pavlovas are so much simpler than they seem.

Vegan Tofu and Mushroom Bolognese

What makes it party-ready: Tofu isn’t just a hero ingredient reserved for those who eat vegetarian or vegan—it’s a protein-packed staple with tons of potential that also happens to be highly affordable. Our food editor, Suruchi, nailed this take on the classic spaghetti bolognese that uses mushrooms and crumbled tofu as a beef/pork replacement. The results are incredible.

Make it a feast:

• A Caprese salad of any variety is always a great starter.
• There’s no going wrong with bruschetta.

Spice-Rubbed Chicken Thighs

What makes it party-ready: There’s nothing better than an easy grilled recipe. Whether it’s chicken, beef, or fish, taking things outside can save clean-up time in the kitchen while adding an extra element of flavor to your food. Chicken thighs are an inexpensive and easy grilling option that can serve a crowd, and with this spice rub, these will be the hit of any gathering.

Make it a feast:

• These crispy smashed fingerling potatoes pair well with just about any entree.
• Serve this kale Italian chopped salad as a side, or as a part of your main meal.

Whole Roasted Fish

What makes it party-ready: Roasted fish is a low-effort, easy way to feed a large crowd. It’s also a dish that doesn’t leave everyone stuffed, meaning more room for sides and dessert. This particular recipe from Rebecca Peppler’s cookbook Le Sud, is served with a simple and delicious homemade pistou that will transport your to the French Rivera.

Make it a feast:

• Cauliflower is in, and so are these cauliflower mashed potatoes.
• Or, try out this roasted cauliflower salad.

Ratatouille-Style Roasted Vegetable Pasta

What makes it party-ready: At first glance, a pasta dish might not seem special enough for a dinner party meal. But this isn’t just any pasta recipe. While it’s easy to prep and cook, it makes the most of a few flavor-packed ingredients that’ll take your meal up a notch. Plus, the pop of green it brings to your table rivals any floral centerpiece. Major wow-factor.

Make it a feast:

• Start your meal with this flavorful eggplant spread. Perfect served with big tears of crusty bread.
• A simple salad won’t compete with the pasta’s plant-based goodness.

Roast Chicken With Tomatoes, Lemons, & Cilantro Salsa Verde

What makes it party-ready: Everyone loves roast chicken. This one has just enough interesting and surprising flavors to make it feel dinner party-worthy. Those charred lemons—yum!

Make it a feast:

• Chermoula Roasted Sweet Potatoes
• A bowl of fresh arugula with lemon juice, olive oil, and (optional) thick shavings of parmesan.

Easy Homemade Pizza

What makes it party-ready: My grilled pizza is truly made for a party. But I’ll admit, it’s a little chaotic to make for more than six people. That’s why I usually bring it out at more intimate gatherings where everyone can get involved. (This pizza party was one of my favorite gatherings ever.) The recipe above is for my homemade pizza dough. Make several dough balls in advance—I usually plan on three doughs for six people—let them rest at room temp for a couple hours before party time and proceed with your favorite pizza toppings and method of cooking.

Make it a feast:

• Roasted Cauliflower With Garlic Tahini and Chimichurri
• A good Caesar salad like this Avocado Kale Caesar or this one with grilled romaine.

Grilled New York Strip Steaks With Chimichurri

What makes it party-ready: This is probably mine and Adam’s most frequently-made meal for a dinner party. It’s incredibly easy to pull together and fun for everyone to hang out down by the grill while we make it. I usually buy one large New York Strip for every two people. Slice into 1″ pieces and serve on a big platter surrounded by grilled tomatoes. Since this is a pricier cut of meat, it feels really special and I typically reserve it for a smaller dinner party. For a bigger gathering, an affordable cut of steak like flank is a great option, too. (You’ll just want to marinate it beforehand and adjust the cooking time.)

Make it a feast: 

• Crispy Roasted Sweet Potatoes
• Grilled asparagus

Hot Honey Salmon With Coconut Crunch

What makes it party-ready: These salmon bowls are a great meal for a summertime gathering on a hot day. They feel so light and refreshing, but still really special. For a girls’ night, I love to set out all the toppings and let everyone build their own bowls. Not only is it a fun way to get people interacting, but it also allows guests with other dietary restrictions to pick and choose their ingredients.

Make it a feast: One of the beautiful things about this dish is that it’s truly a complete meal in a bowl. The only thing I’d add is refreshing scoops of mango sorbet (or mango-basil ice cream) for dessert!

Simple Zucchini Pasta

What makes it party-ready: Sometimes, a party just needs pasta. That said, it’s not ideal for serving a super large group since it does need a bit of last-minute attention (plus, you’d need a really big pan for tossing it all together). This streamlined zucchini pasta combines simple ingredients into one luscious and luxurious bowl that everyone loves.

Make it a feast: A loaf of crusty bread, plus a simple salad with fresh greens (and a bottle of pinot gris).

Orange-Chili Glazed Pork Tenderloin With Carrot Pesto and Grilled Carrots

What makes it party-ready: I make this one when my mother-in-law comes over since she loves pork tenderloin. This dish is perfect with a double dose of carrots. It’s a great one to make outside on the grill, but in the cooler months, you can also roast it all in the oven. Pork tenderloin is one of those cuts of meat that is made for serving a crowd. You could easily scale this recipe depending on your guest count, then slice it up and arrange on a big family-style platter.

Make it a feast: The carrots are a super satisfying side dish on their own, and the pesto adds richness and flavor, so you’re almost already in feast territory with just this recipe. For a dinner party, I’d add some herb-roasted potatoes or a simple kale salad.

Grilled Salmon with Stone Fruit Salsa

What makes it party-ready: This is one of those super satisfying recipes that feels way fancier than it is. And in my experience, salmon is one of the most universally loved fish dishes. Bonus: it’s foolproof! Grilling salmon on a cedar plank is an easy way to infuse this fish with smoky flavors while ensuring it stays tender and moist. Plus, that stone fruit salsa adds the perfect bit of sweetness to complement the charred fish.

Make it a feast:

• I like serving this salmon with a side of herbed quinoa or wild rice. The fluffy texture and nutty flavor offer a satisfying contrast.
• For a lighter side, toss together a simple green salad with a citrus vinaigrette to add some tang to the mix.

Sheet Pan Halibut With Italian Salsa Verde and Asparagus

What makes it party-ready: Here is one of those super-impressive meals that also happens to take very little effort. Why? Because halibut is one of the best fish ever. Plus, the fact that this is made on a sheet pan allows you to easily make several fillets at once. It has a light, clean flavor and buttery, flaky texture, so it doesn’t take much for it to be delicious. I simply roast mine with olive oil, salt, and pepper, then top it with a bright Italian salsa verde.

Make it a feast: Add some potatoes that can roast right along with the fish on a separate baking sheet. Or, you can opt for a little more green and serve it with a big kale salad.

Grilled Yogurt-Marinated Chicken with All the Herbs

What makes it party-ready: If you haven’t tried marinating your chicken in Greek yogurt, this recipe will change that fast. It’s beyond easy (and inexpensive) to throw chicken thighs in a delicious marinade and grill for a crowd. Fresh herbs and honey add a bit of zest and sweetness that complement this juicy chicken.

Make it a feast: Serve this protein with a side salad or crispy roasted potatoes for an all-around simple and delicious meal that everyone will be gushing about.

Sweet & Spicy Braised Short Ribs

What makes it party-ready: Everyone always asks me for this braised short rib recipe after dinner parties, and they’re always shocked to learn how simple it is. I like to add some fresh herbs over the top along with red onion and lemon zest to brighten up the plate. Because presentation matters.

Make it a feast:

• Crispy Smashed Fingerling Potatoes
• Your favorite dip of choice.

Spicy Tuna Tostada with Avocado and Crispy Shallots

What makes it party-ready: Toastadas are a go-to for a few reasons whenever I’m looking to impress my guests with easy dinner party menu ideas. They’re customizable, so everyone can pick and choose what they want to add. This recipe is also a winner for gluten-free guests. Simply swap in a Siete tortilla baked in the oven for a grain-free and gluten-free tostada. 

Make it a feast: This Mexican chopped salad is just hearty enough to round out your meal.

Dinner Party Recipes to Feed a Crowd

Damn That’s a Keeper Winter Vegetable Lasagna

What makes it party-ready: Lasagna can lean a little labor-intensive, but take heart: this dish can be made in advance. In my experience, all variations on the classic lasagna are winners—but this spin is my favorite take yet. It’s hearty and warming without any meat, and the filling makes the most of everyone’s favorite fall veg, butternut squash. The flavors are rich and complex—and if you’re feeling up to it, the recipe also shows you how to make the pasta yourself. It’s a dish worth bragging about.

Make it a feast: Cut the lasagna’s richness with a bitter side, like this radicchio salad. Or, if you want to send the fall flavors home, this apple and arugula salad is one of my favorites.

Danielle Walker’s Turkey Chili Verde

What makes it party-ready: When the colder months hit, I love serving dishes that evoke elevated comfort. They’re simple and warming, but just special enough. This flavor-packed chili comes courtesy of Danielle Walker, our go-to for paleo-friendly, delicious recipes. If you want to make it vegetarian, simply omit the turkey and bump up all the veggies. Danielle suggests either diced zucchini or minced portobello mushrooms. Yum!

Make it a feast: Salty tortilla chips or your favorite cornbread are ideal for dipping. Top each bowl with sour cream or Greek yogurt, cilantro, and a squeeze of lime

Slow-Cooker Chicken Tikka Masala

What makes it party-ready: Even those who aren’t well-versed in Indian cuisine will love chicken tikka masala. Although I frequently make this recipe on a busy weekday for our family, it’s also perfect for a big feast. (Triple or even quadruple the recipe—your slow cooker can handle it!) Plus, the fact that you make this several hours before dinner and it cooks away while you’re free to do other stuff is pretty awesome.

Make it a feast: An Indian-inspired feast means serving one or two other dishes like Saag Paneer, Samosa Chaat Fries, or Indian Butter Cauliflower. Also required: warm naan and a big pot of rice.

Easy Mexican Chicken Tortilla Soup

What makes it party-ready: I’ve made this soup for countless book clubs, family gatherings, and friends who have just had babies. Everyone says it’s the best chicken tortilla soup they’ve had, and it’s just as easy to make a big batch by scaling the ingredients. Sure, a pot of soup may not sound like a party, but watch me make it here and see for yourself how festive all those beautiful ingredients look together. Plus, the smorgasbord of colorful toppings lets guests have fun building their own perfect bowl of soup.

Make it a feast: I usually serve this soup on its own—with all the toppings, it feels complete! But it’s never a bad idea to kick off a Mexican-style feast with really good chips, a couple of great guacamoles, and salsa.

Whole Roasted Side of Salmon With Citrus, Chiles, and Herbs

What makes it party-ready: During my catering career, I learned that one of the best ways to feed a crowd elegantly is with a big roasted side of salmon. It looks impressive coming out of the oven and is the perfect centerpiece to a buffet. If you’re intimidated by buying a side of salmon, don’t be! There’s nothing to it, you literally just ask the fishmonger for “a side of salmon”—I usually plan for five to six ounces per person. (You may even be able to convince them to remove the skin for you!) This one, with roasted citrus slices, is a great main course option for Easter or Mother’s Day. I’ve also served it with great success for cozy girls’ nights with a bottle of pinot noir.

Make it a feast:

• Rainbow Carrots with Yogurt and Pistachios
• Arugula Salad with Strawberries and Goat Cheese

Lime-y Chicken Tacos With Jicama, Avocado, and Mint

What makes it party-ready: I love a taco night-themed party. When it comes to dinner party recipes, few dishes are more festive, and this surprisingly delicious combo of chicken, jicama, avocado, and mint elevates the entire setup. For a group, I usually set out a couple of big platters on the table with all the ingredients, pass around the tortillas, and let everyone assemble their own tacos family-style.

Make it a feast: For a larger group, I like to offer a vegetarian option since there’s usually at least someone who’s not eating meat. Taco night makes it easy: you can roast some cauliflower and let guests build these delicious all-veg tacos if they so choose. I love them just as much as the chicken, so I’ll usually eat one of each.

Lamb Meatballs in Tomato Sauce With Fresh Ricotta

What makes it party-ready: A couple of years back, chef Seamus Mullen served these unbelievably delicious lamb meatballs as the centerpiece to a dinner party he hosted in Santa Monica. As someone who doesn’t cook with lamb very often, I came home feeling inspired to make this spicy lamb meatballs recipe for my next gathering. Although they feel special occasion-worthy, they couldn’t be simpler.

Make it a feast: Take a cue from Chef Mullen’s dinner party and serve with whole roasted cauliflower with salsa verde and a zesty radish, fennel, and grapefruit salad. Or, you could go more classic Italian and serve it on top of a big bowl of olive oil-tossed spaghetti.

Pita and Kebab Board

What makes it party-ready: The last thing we want to be doing at a party is worrying about lots of different meal components coming out of the oven at exactly the right time. One solution? A dinner board that contains everything guests need to build their own perfect plate. This easy and flavor-packed pita and kebab version is not only gorgeous, but it’s also perfect for satisfying a range of dietary needs. Vegetarians on board? Make them meatless. Gluten-free friends can skip the pita. The list of variations is truly endless.

Make it a feast: This board has it all: hummus, feta, roasted tomatoes, olives, sliced cucumbers, diced veggie salad, and roasted garlic. What more could you ask for?

Carne Asada Tacos

What makes it party-ready: Oaxaca has quickly become one of my favorite places to visit. With its vibrant culture and diverse food scene, there’s so much for travelers to soak up. Alongside all the beautiful, artisan-made goods I’ve sourced for Casa Zuma, I’ve also found inspiration in the many meals I’ve happily devoured. Case in point: bold and bright carne asada tacos that benefits from a mix of herbs, garlic, and plenty of spices. These are perfect for al fresco dining season.

Make it a feast:

• Charro Beans
• Mexican Rice
• Perfect Margaritas

Chicken Fire Stew

What makes it party-ready: This stew is a stealth pick for party food. It feels like the comfort food your mama might have made, but when presented with as much style as Shelley Armistead did at her beach dinner, it’s suddenly elevated to special occasion status. What makes this dish perfect for a crowd is that you can truly throw everything in the pot and walk away. An hour later, dinner is served. Shower with herbs and edible flowers—both for flavor and a gorgeous presentation.

Make it a feast: Serve alongside spring rice with greens and peas.

Grilled Shrimp Tacos with Grapefruit-Avocado Salsa

What makes it party-ready: These shrimp have been on repeat in my kitchen this summer. Their flavor is incredible and the endless amount of toppings makes it perfect for just about everyone. Trust me, this is THE grilling recipe for all of your outdoor dinner gatherings.

Make it a feast: Guacamole, or any other Mexican-inspired dip, can be served either on your taco or as a side dish with chips. I also love serving these tacos with a Mexican chopped salad to add some extra greens to the table.

Skillet Eggplant Lasagna

What makes it party-ready: One-pan dishes that serve a crowd make dinner party hosting incredibly easy. If you’ve never tried eggplant lasagna, this recipe is a great place to start. It turns a classic dish into something both stunning and healthy. You’ll never cook your lasagna the same again.

Make it a feast: With a heavier dish, I always serve something on the lighter side as my side dish or appetizer. Perhaps an easy bruschetta or a simple salad to spruce up your table and keep guests wanting more.

This post was last updated on April 4, 2025 to include new insights.

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How many times have I poured over a cookbook, flagged multiple favorites, only to return it to a shelf, waiting for the perfect occasion to arise? And then maybe I’ll flip back through my earmarks, only to lament the lack of ingredients on hand, or the kitchen tools needed, or, more crucially, a hungry table to cook for. There are only so many ways to pitch a dish like “pan-roasted romanesco with golden raisins, tahini, and sumac” to my two young children, whose palettes favor all things brown and beige despite my best efforts. Alas, it’s time to stop waiting for the occasion—my cookbook club awaits.

A cookbook club is a gathering of friends where everyone cooks a dish from the same cookbook, then meets to dish and dine. It blends the concept of a book club with a communal dining experience. The result is that everyone can try new cuisines or improve their cooking skills and enjoy meaningful conversations over a shared meal.

Why start a cookbook dinner club?

The greatest gathering joys happen around a table with great food and great conversation. If there’s one thing I’ve learned from attending multiple gatherings hosted by Camille, it’s to always have a conversation starter or two in your back pocket. The table could be set to perfection, the food utterly delicious, the playlist vibing, but at the point of sounding saccharine, it’s the laughs, tears, and meaningful conversations that matter post. Done well, a great gathering is just a vehicle for connection. And hosting a cookbook dinner club is a beautiful opportunity for food and conversation—plus, it’s a low-key way to connect with friends without the pressure of hosting a full-on dinner party.

How to Organize Your Cookbook Dinner Club

1. Determine the logistics.

Choose Your People: I’d advise kicking off with a small group of people who can commit and set the foundation of your club. Start with four members at the least and eight at most. The size of your group might also depend on your space and the format. Invite people who are adventurous, interesting, and feel like they’d get along well together.

Note Allergies or Sensitivities: In an email thread, text thread, or shared doc for easy reference, ask each member to share their allergies or food sensitivities so they can be considered when selecting menus.

Set Expectations: Will your group focus more on causal fun or a culinary challenge? Will you cook through an entire book or mix it up every time you meet? Will you cook together or bring prepared dishes? There are multiple ways you can set up your cookbook club, just make sure everyone is on the same page (pun intended).

Get it on the Calendar: A plan isn’t real until it’s on the calendar. Determine your hosting schedule (typically monthly or bi-monthly), whether there will be rotating hosts or one consistent location, and finally, the first meeting date.

2. Select the cookbook and plan the menu.

How to choose the cookbook: If you rotate hosts, a simple way to choose the cookbook is to let the host decide. In my opinion, the best cookbook for your dinner party comes down to one simple requirement: Everyone is excited to cook from it.

Ask guests to throw out their tried-and-true alongside new, exciting cookbooks. You could choose a seasonal cookbook like Six Seasons by Joshua McFadden and Martha Holmberg or a classic a là Julia Child. Maybe you’re group is interested in trying a specific cuisine, or they are more interested in baking than sautéing. In which case, a brunch-based cookbook club with breads and pastries from a French pastry chef could be right up your alley. Or, try a dessert night because we’re adults and we can eat dessert for dinner if we want to.

A few favorites for any kind of cookbook club are Gjelina by Travis Lett for vibrant, seasonal recipes that never fail to delight, Bavel by Ori Menashe, Genevieve Gergis, and Lesley Suter for a Mediterranean night, Nothing Fancy by Alison Roman because everything she touches is golden (and delicious). Sweet Tooth by Sarah Fennel is perfection for a dessert night, as is Dessert Person by Claire Saffitz. You can always peruse this list of Camille’s favorite cookbooks to spark more ideas.

Plan the menu: To keep it simple, consider two ways to determine the menu. In scenario one, the host decides. She would select the recipes and then either assign them to members or send them out for members to choose first-come, first-served. You could do this via a shared Google doc or in an email thread. In scenario two, members are free to choose their own dish from the cookbook. Just make sure everyone shares ahead of time so there aren’t multiples, and so the meal is balanced from start to finish.

Tip: The host should offer to cook the dish that requires the heaviest lifting, often the main course.

Cookbook Club Books

Gjelina: Cooking from Venice, California

$25.11 at Amazon

Bavel: Modern Recipes Inspired by the Middle East [A Cookbook]

$28.35 at Amazon

Mastering the Art of French Cooking, Volume I: 50th Anniversary Edition: A Cookbook

$26.49 at Amazon

Malibu Farm Cookbook: Recipes from the California Coast

$20 at Amazon

Dessert Person: Recipes and Guidance for Baking with Confidence: A Baking Book

$19.25 at Amazon

Sweet Tooth: 100 Desserts to Save Room For (A Baking Book)

$22.85 at Amazon

Nothing Fancy: Unfussy Food for Having People Over

$15.94 at Amazon

French Country Cooking: Meals and Moments from a Village in the Vineyards: A Cookbook

$26.21 at Amazon

Joy of Cooking: Fully Revised and Updated

$20.87 at Amazon

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Matty Matheson: Home Style Cookery: A Home Cookbook

$23.49 at Amazon

Six Seasons: A New Way with Vegetables

$22.49 at Amazon

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Hosting Tips for a Seamless Gathering

1. Set the table and the atmosphere.

Set the Scene: Make the table effortless and inviting with a few candles and a vase full of fresh flowers, greenery, or herbs. Put on a playlist (extra points if it matches the cookbook’s theme) and be ready to offer guests a drink when they arrive

If hosting is new to you (or if you just need a refresher), here’s a guide to hosting your first dinner party.

Encourage Conversation: This is where those conversation starters come in handy. Tip: Ask ChatGPT to generate a few icebreaker questions specific to your cookbook. Jot them down on a notecard and place them on the table or under plates.

Dinner Party Essentials

Linen Table Throw

$80 at Casa Zuma

Recycled Glass Petite Goblets

$78 at Casa Zuma

Stoneware Serving Platter

$74 at Casa Zuma

Large Wood Salad Bowl

$100 at Casa Zuma

Sabre Ivory Flatware 4-Piece Set

$68 at Casa Zuma

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2. Clean up and plan your next gathering.

Make clean-up part of the party: Keep things easy by cleaning up together. Even though you’re hosting, everyone played a part in creating the meal, and dish duty is part of the experience! Don’t be afraid to assign roles, turn up the playlist, and make it all part of the party. Tip: Keep containers on hand for leftovers (or ask guests to bring their own).

Plan for next time: Avoid the group text back and forth and make plans for the next one before everyone leaves. Decide who’s hosting, chat about themes, land on a date, and get it scheduled! It’s a simple send-off, but one that will help you stay consistent and accountable.

Why You’ll Love It

A cookbook dinner club is more than just a meal—it’s a way to slow down, savor good food, and deepen connections with friends. Whether you’re discovering new ingredients, mastering a new technique, or simply enjoying the act of gathering, each dinner becomes a celebration of community and creativity. With the right group, a thoughtful menu, and a little planning, your cookbook club can become a beloved ritual—one that brings inspiration to both your kitchen and your table. So choose your first cookbook, set a date, and get ready to make delicious memories.

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Sometimes I find myself longing for school days. Friendship seemed built into our day-to-day activities as children—play dates, after school sports, birthday parties, sleepovers—my social calendar was booked solid. But as adulthood creeps in and responsibilities loom, I’ve found that maintaining friendships requires much more effort. With a loneliness epidemic still lingering thanks to the pandemic, gathering with friends is needed now more than ever. And what better way to connect with loved ones than by learning how to start a book club?

A book club is more than just a shared reading experience—it’s an opportunity to gather, open your home, and connect on a deeper level with your friends. If you find yourself wishing you could join one, this could be a sign for you to start one yourself. Yes, you! I know firsthand that hosting anxiety is real, which is why I’ve put together this guide on how to start a book club. Whether you’re looking to spark insightful discussions, build community, or simply carve out more time to read, this guide will walk you through everything you need to know to start (and sustain!) a thriving book club.

How To Start a Book Club in Three Steps

Hosting always starts with a little bit of prep work. For book club, that means sending invites, deciding on your first book, and setting the tone for what you’d like your book club to encompass.

Step One: Form Your Group

Put feelers out and ask your friends if they’d be interested in joining. This doesn’t have to be formal, just send a group text! It’s helpful to know if you have friends who are already readers, or perhaps friends who would like to read more (this could be a great incentive!). You can also decide how large or small you’d like your group to be. Anywhere from six to ten people is ideal for juicy convos, though I’d say you could also invite three to four friends for a more intimate gathering. 

It’s also OK if not everyone knows one another at the start. This is a great opportunity to create new friendships and connections. Once you have a friend or two who’s interested in joining, ask them to invite anyone else they think might like to join. 

Step Two: Organize and Structure the Club 

As you send out invites and see who’s interested, let everyone know how often you’d like to meet and what the vibe is. Do you envision a casual wine night or are you looking for deep discussion over dinner? What sort of books are you interested in chatting about? Brainstorm a bit, then ask your friends what they’d be into as well.

Gauge interest in what genres people are interested in reading and have a few titles to choose from at the start. Having a leader of your book club is recommended (someone to host, lead conversation, and keep the club organized) and the leadership can be rotated as you get going. Don’t be afraid to lead the first one, especially if this is something that you’d really like to make happen.

Step Three: Pick a Book and a Date

The two essential things you need to start a book club are a book to read and a date for your first gathering. Once you’ve nailed down your guest list and a book that everyone is psyched to read, set the date. Give you and your book club members four to six weeks to read the book, then let the party planning commence!

Five Tips for Hosting the Coziest Book Club Ever

Now that you know how to start a book club, these five simple hosting tips will ensure your first meeting is a complete success.

Create a Cozy, Welcoming Atmosphere

Hosting is all about making your guests feel welcome and relaxed—the same goes for book clubs. Be sure there’s plenty of cozy seating, light some candles, and you could even add on-theme decor based on the book you’re chatting about. Cute!

Have a Playlist Going

Music will make your guests feel at ease. Have a playlist going as they arrive. Bonus points for making it on theme with your book.

Plan a Simple, Thoughtful Menu

A gathering wouldn’t be complete without food. Whether you’re making a one-pot meal like this coconut dal, or you have lots of snacks, make your menu simple so you can focus on the book and your friends. Greet your guests with a welcome cocktail or mocktail (Salty Dog, anyone?) and have snacks like tuna and avocado toast or chips and guac out on the table. If you’re serving a main dish like roasted vegetable pasta or spring potato pizza, let your guests know when it’s ready to dive in!

Structure Your Time

Since book club centers around a discussion, have a plan going in for how you’d like to structure your gathering. Let the first hour be about settling in and catching up. Book club doesn’t have to be all about the book the entire time, it’s also about connecting with your friends. 

Once everyone has eaten and chatted, gather around to start discussing your book. A good ice breaker is to start with overall thoughts—how do you rate this book between one and ten? Then let the conversation flow. 

As the host, have a few conversation starters at the ready as well. You may not need them, but they can come in handy if you want to dive deeper. A few general conversation starters include:

• What was your favorite part of the book and why?
• How much did you know about this book before reading? What surprised you?
• If this movie was turned into a movie, who would you cast as the main character?
• Did the book challenge or change your perspective on a topic?

Decide on the Next Book

Deciding what the next book is as a group is a fun way to cap your book club meeting! Have a few titles to choose from and vote as your discussion wraps up. You can also plan your books a few months at a time to make things easier. Don’t be afraid to swap genres, and if you’d like, swap hosts as well.

Book Club Ideas

If you’re not sure where to start—we have tons of recommendations from books that feel like vacay to cozy reads that will make you want to snuggle up. If you’re looking for themed book club gathering ideas though, I won’t leave you hanging! Here are three book club ideas that will take the guesswork out of a fun evening with friends. 

Be Ready When The Luck Happens by Ina Garten

Ina’s memoir came out last fall and it was my favorite read of the whole year. It would make a fantastic book club read! Garten shares her story from early childhood to her days of working at the White House, to her adventures buying and growing the Barefoot Contessa—the specialty food store that grew into her empire. 

Encourage guests to come in their favorite Ina-inspired button down, serve iconic Ina Garten dishes, and sip on crisp white wine or cosmopolitans. Have a playlist that consists of French dinner party music, reminiscent of her iconic Paris apartment. Here are a few discussion questions to get the convo going.

• How much did you know about Ina Garten before reading her memoir? What, if anything, surprised you about her life?
• What sections of her life interested you the most? The least?
• What do you think of Garten’s writing style?

Be Ready When The Luck Happens By Ina Garten

$19.28 at Target

The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins

Mel Robbins’ most recent book is a fantastic book club pick, especially if your friends are into personal development. The theory is simple: If you “let them” do whatever they like, you release control and invite more peace into your life. Have an upbeat playlist full of motivational songs playing as your guests arrive and keep the menu simple. You truly can’t go wrong with a charcuterie board, an appetizer like this hummus toast, and a big, gorgeous citrus salad. Ask your friends these questions during the discussion:

• After reading, do you agree or disagree with the “let them” theory?
• Did you have an “aha” moments while reading? What were they?
• What area of your life do you think the “let them” theory would be most helpful? (career, personal life, family life etc.)

The Let Them Theory By Mel Robbins

$15.68 at Target

Sunrise on the Reaping by Suzanne Collins

Hot off the presses, the second Hunger Games prequel just released and it would make a really fun first book club meeting. Who says YA novels have to be strictly for young adults? The first Hunger Games novel came out in 2008, and for those of us who have read the books from the beginning, this would make for pretty juicy book club convos. To save you from spoilers, here are a few general book club questions that would work great!

• If you were faced with the same predicament as the protagonist, what would you have done? 
• What was the most surprising part for you?
• What scene was most memorable to you? Why?
• What did you think of the ending? Would you change anything?

Sunrise On The Reaping By Suzanne Collins

$19.59 at Target

Now that you know how to start a book club, remember: It’s about more than just reading. It’s an occasion meant to foster connection, create community, and hold space for shared experiences. Whether you keep it intimate or expand it into a larger social gathering, the key is to make it enjoyable, engaging, and fun. So gather your group, pick your first book, and happy reading!

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2025 is the year I’m entering my hostess era. I’ve dreamed of hosting dinner parties for my friends for years—but have never actually done it. There’s always been a tiny voice in my head that whispers, “You can’t host yet—your place isn’t big enough. You don’t have the right supplies. Everyone’s schedule is bananas, you’ll never find the time. It’s so much effort.” So up until this year, I simply haven’t invited my friends over for dinner. 

The many versions of “I’m not enough” have plagued me for years, and I know I’m not alone. Anyone who has a slight (or maybe not so slight) streak of perfectionism knows this feeling well. If I can’t do it right, then it’s better not to do it at all. Of course, there truly is no “right” and my avoidance of something that I know will bring me joy boils down to a fear of not being enough. 

If you find yourself thinking similar thoughts, yet still want to become the hostess of your dreams, I spoke with three mental health professionals about ways to overcome hosting anxiety. Hearing their words has been a balm and I’m excited to continue my hosting journey after learning their tips. Read on and get ready to leave comparison, perfectionism, and fear of judgement behind.

Shift Your Mindset

The first step to hosting a gathering is sending invitations. Even this initial step can cause anxiety! Learning how to shift your discouraging thoughts to empowering ones can be incredibly helpful. 

“The fear that no one will show up or have a good time is very common with this kind of anxiety and is often rooted in past experiences of rejection,” Janet Bayramyan, LCSW, a Los Angeles-based licensed psychotherapist shares. “Remember that your dinner party guests are coming to connect and hang out with you, not to criticize your meal or tablescape design. Reframe this as a time to make memories, instead of impressing anyone.”

If you find yourself feeling anxious planning a party, reciting a few affirmations either out loud or in your mind can help create a shift too. Are you worried about sending invites and the uncertainty of who can come? Try “I embrace the unknown with courage.” If you’re caught up in perfection, try “I am enough, just as I am.” Or if you’re imagining all the ways your event could go wrong, try “I release the need to focus on worst case scenarios. I choose to focus on what I can control.” 

Be Prepared

Anxiety stems from feeling a lack of control. One way to remedy that? Be as prepared as possible.

“Prepare a plan B, plan C…and even a plan D if needed,” Michelle English, LCSW and Executive Clinical Manager at Healthy Life Recovery says. “This way, you’ll feel more in control and won’t panic if something doesn’t go as expected.”

Being prepared as a hostess can include making food ahead of time and prepping your space the night before. Camille always sets the table the night before her gatherings. I personally like to do a little something each day the week before I host. Bayramyan suggests making a list to stay on track. “Break your tasks down into smaller steps. Make your grocery list, shop the day before, and set realistic expectations for yourself,” she says. English agrees.

“Have backup food options, an extra playlist and a simple activity in mind in case the vibe feels off. Knowing you have solutions ready makes it easier to relax and actually enjoy the moment,” she says.

Ask For Help

If you’re a newbie, or just prefer some extra support, asking for help is a fantastic way to overcome hosting anxiety.  “Many of your fears about hosting will feel a lot less overwhelming if you let others pitch in instead of trying to do everything yourself,” English says. “Most people are happy to bring a dish, help set up or even just keep conversations flowing, so don’t be afraid to delegate.”

Co-hosting an event with a friend can ease some hosting responsibilities too. Or it can be as simple as accepting help when it’s offered. “Hosting isn’t about proving you can handle it all alone, it’s about creating a good time for everyone, including yourself,” English continues.

Ground Yourself

Not to be dramatic, but I’m always a bundle of nerves before my guests arrive. Since hosting is still new to me, I’m not quite used to friends arriving all at once. Creating a little ritual for before and after your event is a great way to overcome hosting anxiety. 

“It’s helpful to have coping strategies in place to manage your stress and calm your nerves” Kirsten Hall-Baldwin, Founder and Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor at The Modern Wellness Collective shares. “Deep breathing, mindfulness exercises, going for a walk, or even affirmations can help center you before the event. Then once the event is over, take some time to recharge and practice self-care.”

Prioritize Connection

Perfectionism can suck the joy out of an otherwise fun experience. English suggests focusing on feelings instead of what your home, or your meal, looks like. 

“A lot of hosting anxiety comes from worrying about everything being just right, but most guests won’t remember whether the napkins matched—they’ll remember how they felt at your gathering,” she says. “Instead of stressing over tiny details, focus on making people feel welcome, relaxed and included.”

When it comes down to it, your friends are looking for a good time spent with people they care about. It’s ok to find joy in creating beautiful space, but don’t let your perfectionism cause extra stress. “When you let go of the pressure to be perfect, hosting becomes a lot more fun,” English adds. 

Keep It Simple

While I aspire to host dinner parties, I’m working my way up to one. I’m not great in the kitchen (yet!) so I hosted an at-home coffee shop in January and had a girl dinner-themed Galentine’s party because the food for those events was simple. Both English and Hall-Baldwin think that’s the right move. 

“Only take on what you can actually handle. There’s no need to go over budget, force a long guest list, or plan an over-the-top menu that just stresses you out,” English says. “A smaller gathering with food you actually enjoy making will always feel better than a chaotic and overwhelming event.” 

Hall-Baldwin suggests pinpointing what’s most important to you and creating a plan from there. “Be clear with yourself about what you’re comfortable with and avoid overwhelming yourself with unnecessary tasks,” she says. “Break down the planning into manageable steps, focus on the essentials that matter most to you, and let go of the non-essentials.”

Practice Self-Compassion

Perhaps the most important part of learning how to overcome hosting anxiety is to practice self compassion. Inviting people into your home can be vulnerable, so be sure to acknowledge your courage. “Celebrate what went well and focus on the positive aspects of the event,” Hall-Baldwin suggests. “Hosting is a skill that improves with each experience. Embrace mistakes as part of the learning process. Be kind to yourself.”

I always find it so nice to relax on the couch with my husband once everyone has left. It’s the perfect time to reflect, have gratitude, and give myself credit for opening up my home and creating a fun and memorable experience for my friends. 

Even though I still feel a bit anxious as I plan my events, these tips make me feel grounded and at ease as I prepare and ultimately, enjoy, my time with friends. Happy hosting!

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Female friendships are so special. My vision board for the year is filled with images of dinner parties, wine glasses clinking and shared hugs between friends. I’m entering my hostess era, mainly because I want to nurture my relationships and prioritize connecting with my friends. Galentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to celebrate the friendships you hold so dear to your heart, and it’s quickly approaching! In need of some Galentines party menu ideas? We’ve got you covered.

If you have plans to gather with the girls this February, or perhaps you’re not sure where to begin, read on for five Galentine’s menu ideas. I love a theme, so each party idea revolves around a concept that will make your gathering just a little more special and fun. This will create memories for you and your besties, with easy recipes to feed a group, both big and small. 

image above from our interview with Olivia Muniak by Michelle Nash.

Pajamas and Prosecco

Galentines and brunch just make sense. And a party where the dress code is pajamas? Sign me up! Being cozy with your girls is the name of the game for this gathering, and bubbly prosecco elevates the vibe in a fun, fancy way. 

Sheela Prakash’s honeyed prosecco is a must for this party. It’s a simple way to upgrade your bubbles and is sure to impress. Keep the food simple and not fussy—a  yogurt and granola breakfast board is perfect for grazing throughout your party. If you wanted something a little more substantial, a BLT brunch frittata is perfect for feeding a crowd and serves four. Have more than four guests? This asparagus frittata with goat cheese and veggies serves eight!

You also can’t have brunch without something sweet (at least in my opinion!) like a walnut cream cheese coffee cake. To play on the prosecco theme, you could also make pear and prosecco sorbet for a sweet and refreshing ending. 

Honeyed Prosecco

From Sheela Prakash’s new cookbook, this is a fun and fancy cocktail that is essential for a PJ’s and Prosecco party!

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Yogurt & Granola Breakfast Grazing Board

A colorful spread of fruit, honey, and herbs.

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BLT Brunch Frittata

A frittata is every savvy hostess’s secret weapon when it comes to serving brunch to a crowd, and is perfect for your Galentine’s Day PJ’s and Prosecco party!

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Asparagus, Potato, & Goat Cheese Frittata

Depending on how large your gathering is, you can make one or both of these frittata’s. This one is vegetarian friendly and totally delicious.

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Walnut Cream Cheese Coffee Cake

Do you and your girls a favor and whip up this coffee cake for a little something sweet to go with your frittata and breakfast board.

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Pear and Prosecco Sorbet

A prosecco dessert? Say less!

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Cozy Soup Soiree

So let’s be real, a Galentine’s Day party could be a bright spot in the middle of dreary February. This is an opportunity to embrace cozy season before it’s gone, and nothing is cozier than soup. I’ve seen soup parties on social media where everyone brings their own so there’s a variety of soups to choose from—cute! But even if you don’t do pot luck, a pot of soup and a side of crusty bread is simple, comforting and nourishing. You could make Danielle Walker’s turkey chili verde with tortilla chips or cornbread on the side. Or go Mexican with chicken tortilla soup and guacamole. Camille has tons of soup recipes on the site, like Greek lemon chicken soup, tortellini soup and Zuppa toscana soup. They’re all cozy and delicious!

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Chicken Tortilla Soup

Comfort food with a spicy kick! The girls are gonna love it.

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Guacamole

Simple, straight forward and delicious. This is truly the only guacamole recipe you need, and it’s perfectly paired with chicken tortilla soup. And tortilla chips, naturally.

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Turkey Chili Verde

Pair with tortilla chips or cornbread!

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Greek Lemon Chicken Soup

The brightness of the lemons will perk up the girls and remind them that spring is coming, while the coziness of the broth will keep them planted in February. It’s the best of both worlds, really.

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Tortellini Soup

A spoonful of comfort. Sign me up for any soup that features cheese filled pasta.

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Zuppa Toscana Soup

A little lighter than the original—and every bit as delish. Perfect with crusty bread!

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Love You To Pizzas Party

Having your girls make their own heart-shaped pizzas is what my dreams are made of. A galentine’s day pizza party would be so fun! Welcome the girls with a glass of pomegranate punch and have an Italian dinner party playlist going. While it would be easy to just order pizza in, Camille swears by homemade crust and grilling with your friends. If you assign tasks like preparing toppings, brushing the dough with oil and grilling—it will be an experience everyone will remember and cherish! 

As far as toppings, of course you can do classic cheese and pepperoni. But if you really want to impress the girls? Try Camille’s fig, prosciutto and carmelized onion pizza or bacon, apple and sweet potato pizza. A side salad is always great with pizza, and this shaved brussels sprout salad is a winner. To stick with an Italian theme pizza party, have cookie tiramisu for dessert. Yum!

Camille’s Pomegranate Punch

There’s nothing lovelier than being handed a drink as soon as you walk into a party. This pomegranate punch is also an appropriate hue—the deep reddish purple makes it a quintessential galentine’s drink!

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Fig, Prosciutto, & Caramelized Onion Pizza

Fancy pizza for fancy gals.

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Bacon, Apple, & Sweet Potato Pizza

It’s the crispy sage that does it for me. This flavor combo is to die for!

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Shaved Brussels Sprout Salad with Lemon Vinaigrette

It’s the crunchy, sweet, & zesty salad you’ll crave. It’s an essential side for your pizza party!

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Cookie Tiramisù

This twist on a classic adds chocolate chip cookies. Yum! A perfect way to end a pizza party.

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Spill The Tea Party

I recently went to an estate sale to browse a huge collection of vintage teacups and saucers. I was totally inspired to host an afternoon tea party for the girls! A tea party is a fantastic option if you prefer a no-cook menu. Throwing this together couldn’t be simpler. Have a variety of different tea available and lay a spread of finger foods out on a table. Easy peasy!

Toasts like herbed goat cheese and radish tartines and avocado toast with kale pesto are perfect for afternoon tea, or you could even do smoked salmon flatbread. Tea and scones are made for each other, and you truly can’t go wrong with these orange and chocolate chip scones. If you’d like to end your tea party with cake (and who doesn’t?), this strawberry olive oil cake is festive and galentine’s approved. It’s described as being like if a coffee cake and strawberry shortcake had a baby—aka perfection. 

Herbed Goat Cheese & Radish Tartines

This goat cheese and radish tartine is like an elevated cucumber sandwich—a tea party essential!

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Avocado Toast With Kale Pesto & Crunchy Veggies

This avocado toast is so simple and delicious, you and the girls will want to make it everyday for breakfast.

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Everything Bagel Smoked Salmon Flatbread With Lemony Cream Cheese

The brunch classic has leveled up. Yum!

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Orange & Chocolate Chip Scones

Tea and scones are a match made in heaven.

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Strawberry Crumble Cake

The strawberries understand the galentine’s day party dress code, amirite?

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Galentine’s Girls Night In 

To round out the galentine’s party menu ideas, we’ll keep it simple. You know the feeling of cozying up in a robe at a hotel, ordering room service and staying in with a glass of wine and a face mask? These are totally the vibes of a galentine’s girls night in party.  Give your living room a hotel-inspired makeover by placing cocktails on a silver serving tray and playing jazz to set the mood. How fun!

A lillet spritz is a great cocktail of choice. It’s light, refreshing and perfect for girls night. Have a killer charcuterie board set out, and serve family style pesto chicken cobb salad. It’s hearty enough to serve as your main! Don face masks, throw on fuzzy slippers and invite the girls to dive into cast iron skillet chocolate chip cookies once dinner is over. This fun dessert serves 12! Sip on cocktails and have juicy convos into the night, or watch a favorite rom com on the couch to end the evening. Bonus points for throwing a sleepover!

Lillet Spritz

Aperol, who?

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Charcuterie Board

It’s an art, and Camille is Picasso.

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Family-Style Pesto Chicken Cobb Salad

This serving platter is one serving, right?

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Cast-Iron Chocolate Chip Cookies

The key to our hearts. Who doesn’t love a chocolate chip cookie?

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There’s something special about gathering with friends in the morning. More unexpected than a dinner party, an AM get-together sets the tone for the day with fresh coffee, meaningful conversation, and a cozy, laid-back vibe. And if you’re like me, you appreciate being able to enjoy the company of your favorite people without having to stay up past your bedtime!

The best part? You don’t need lots of prep time or any major hosting skills to pull off this gathering. With a quick trip to Target (our partner on today’s post), you can create the feeling of an at-home café that feels elevated but entirely stress-free. Think easy, chic pieces for the table, a simple crowd-pleasing menu, and a setup that lets everyone help themselves.

Here’s how to create your own at-home café gathering with all the tips, recipes, and your Target shopping list to bring it to life.

Step 1: Set the Scene

Transform your kitchen island or counter into a cozy café space with an easy buffet setup. Keep it simple but intentional by focusing on functional pieces that feel warm and inviting:

Dinnerware & Glasses

13oz Stoneware Wethersfield Mugs

$5 at Target

4pc Stoneware Salad Plates

$20 at Target

4pk Fluted Glass Parfait Cup Set

$23.99 at Target

Serving Pieces

Wood Tree Mug Rack

$20 at Target

Wooden Harvest Bowl

$19.99 at Target

Footed Wood Serving Trivet

$24.99 at Target

Decor

Amber Glass Wooden Wick Amber and Cedar Jar Candle

$18 at Target

10″ Round Wooden Paddle Serving Board

$9.99 at Target

2pk Unscented Taper Candles

$4 at Target

These essentials will help create a space that encourages connection and sets the tone for a relaxed morning.

Step 2: Brew the Perfect Cup

No morning gathering is complete without coffee, and if there’s one thing I’ve learned—guests always drink more coffee than I expect, so make extra! The De’Longhi Espresso Machine from Target is the hero of this gathering. It’s easy to use, so you can make lattes, cappuccinos, or americanos for your guests with no barista skills required.

I like to set up a DIY coffee station so guests can customize their drinks. Include options like oat milk, vanilla syrup, and a sprinkle of cinnamon to elevate their cup.

Coffee Essentials

De’Longhi 15 Bar Pump Espresso Machine

$138.99 at Target

Valentine’s Day Heart Imprint Stoneware Espresso Cup and Saucer

$9.99 at Target

Non-Dairy Oatmilk – Good & Gather

$2.49 at Target

Small Wooden Scoop (Set of 2)

$4.99 at Target

Step 3: Serve a Stress-Free Menu

When it comes to hosting in the morning, simplicity is key. I like a menu that I can prep almost completely ahead of time so I don’t have to rise at the crack of dawn—I can just get up, get ready, and know that I mostly just have to assemble a few things and set them out on trays. Here’s what I served at my most recent at-home café:

1. Croissants with Butter & Jam

I’m a major proponent of including one or two store-bought items on a menu—you don’t have to make everything from scratch! I picked up these Good & Gather Croissants and paired with butter and jam for an effortless treat.

Butter Croissants – Favorite Day

$5.29 at Target

2. Blueberry Muffins:

This was another great shortcut that made my life so much easier without sacrificing flavor. I used the Kodiak Protein-Packed Blueberry-Lemon Muffin Mix for a crowd-pleasing option that’s also packed with protein and good-for-you ingredients.

Kodiak Protein-Packed Muffin Mix Blueberry Lemon

$5.39 at Target

6ct Nonstick Jumbo Muffin Pan – Figmint

$9 at Target

3. Fruit & Yogurt Parfaits

Make this the night before: in parfait glasses, layer Good & Gather Greek Yogurt with Grain-Free Granola and fresh berries for a colorful, healthy treat. This one is also great for any guests who might be gluten-free.

Coconut Grain Free Granola – Good & Gather

$5.99 at Target

Greek Plain Whole Milk Yogurt – Good & Gather

$3.99 at Target

Triple Berry Frozen Fruit Blend – Good & Gather

$11.49 at Target

Wood Cutting & Serve Board

$19.99 at Target

Footed Marble Countertop Tray

$24.99 at Target

4. Smoked Salmon Toast

Obsessed with this new recipe I created for you guys. It’ll be coming soon to the site—a simple toast that’s the perfect savory complement to this brunch spread.

This menu is full of fresh, bright flavors. Despite its ease, it’s so satisfying and there’s a little something for everyone. And the best part of a make-ahead menu is that you can spend less time in the kitchen and more time connecting with your guests.

Step 4: Make It Your Own

It’s those little touches that elevate a gathering and make guests feel so well cared-for. Here are a few simple ideas:

• Write a small welcome note or menu card for each guest.
• Find a vibey café playlist on Spotify to set the mood, then text the link to friends afterward.
• Set out some cozy throws or cushions if your gathering extends to a front porch or back patio space.

Elevate Your Weekend with an At-Home Café Gathering

At-home cafés are the ultimate low-stress hosting trend. They’re easy to pull together and easy on your budget, and create a relaxed vibe that’s all about enjoying the moment. By shopping for a few of these items at Target, you can stock up on everything you need—from chic decor to delicious menu essentials—in one place.

Shop everything you need for this at-home café gathering at your local Target or on Target.com.

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In a world that often prioritizes large parties and social media-driven events, the power of intimate connections is easy to overlook. But spending time with just one or two close friends offers a rare opportunity to deepen our relationships in meaningful ways. These smaller, intentional gatherings create a space for vulnerability, honest conversations, and the kind of emotional reset that’s hard to achieve when we find ourselves in larger groups. They remind us that true connection isn’t measured by the number of people present but by the depth of the shared experience.

Whether it’s a cozy dinner at home, an afternoon coffee date, or a walk in the park, intimate gatherings can strengthen bonds and help us feel more grounded in our relationships. These moments allow us to step away from the noise, truly listen, and engage in thoughtful conversations. Ahead, learn why these intimate connections are essential for fostering deeper relationships and discover creative ways to make them happen.

Featured image from our interview with Camilla Marcus by Michelle Nash.

The Power of Small Gatherings

Intimate gatherings create an environment where connections deepen through our shared presence. They foster a sense of trust and openness, encouraging meaningful and thoughtful conversations. This setting allows friends to focus on one another without distraction. Intimate gatherings can also be restorative, allowing people to fully show up as their authentic selves. This not only builds stronger relationships but also promotes a greater sense of emotional well-being.

10 Intimate Gatherings to Help You Build Meaningful Connection 

Deepening our relationships doesn’t require grand gestures—it’s often the simple gatherings that build the most meaningful bonds. Whether it’s a shared meal, a creative project, or a mindful walk, these smaller moments create space for honest conversations and genuine connection. Ahead, discover 10 ways to bring more intimate gatherings into your life and strengthen your relationships in the process.

Read the full story—and get all the ideas for how to host small gatherings—on page 73 of Camille Styles EDIT, a digital magazine designed to help you create your most beautiful life. Grab your issue here.

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Ariel Kaye, founder of Parachute, believes that hospitality isn’t just about opening your door—it’s about creating an environment where guests feel truly at home. For her, the heart of entertaining lies in the details: the cozy ambiance, the thoughtful touches, and the effort to ensure everyone feels comfortable and relaxed. It’s the intention behind the gathering, the way laughter lingers in the air, and the memories that are made around the table that make it all so special. Whether hosting a holiday celebration or a spontaneous get-together, Ariel is committed to crafting spaces that not only welcome guests but also encourage them to unwind and connect.

Ariel Kaye’s Expert Tips for Making Your Guests Feel Right at Home

Ahead, Ariel shares her top tips for making guests feel at ease when they walk through your door. From setting the tone with candles and music as soon as they arrive, to creating a comfortable flow throughout your space, her advice will help you elevate your entertaining game. She highlights simple yet impactful ideas like a self-serve bar, offering a well-stocked guest room, and filling your fridge with their favorite snacks—all while encouraging you to relax and enjoy the moments as much as your guests do. With these thoughtful tips, you can ensure that your home is always ready to host in a way that feels effortless and inviting.

Ariel Kaye

Home is everything to Ariel Kaye, founder of Parachute. What began in Los Angeles in 2014 as a digitally native brand, Parachute has since expanded beyond its roots—premium-quality bedding—to include essentials for all rooms in the home. In the nearly eleven years, Ariel has evolved Parachute into a beloved home lifestyle brand across the country.

I truly love the magic of the holidays. My love of home and design started as a love of hosting, bringing family and friends together to gather and then linger late into the night. I am happiest when my home is always filled with laughter and chatter, little footsteps running, the sound of a wine bottle opening, a fire burning…

I love the opportunity to set the table, dim the lights and welcome people into my home for big celebrations and holidays—whether it is Thanksgiving, Christmas, the Jewish holidays, or my annual New Year’s Eve Eve party. But also the moments in between, like the impromptu weekend gathering. I strive to always be ready to have people over with snacks and drinks, ready at the go. The key is not just welcoming people over, it is making sure they also feel like home. When people are comfortable—and I feel comfortable as host—that’s when the fun really happens and those core memories are made. 

I am happiest when my home is always filled with laughter and chatter, little footsteps running, the sound of a wine bottle opening, a fire burning…

Consider the Flow of the Space

I spend a lot of time thinking about the flow of an event, where people enter, where they will gather, and how you can guide and create intentional spaces. People generally gather in my kitchen or in the living room, so thinking through seating and making sure there is space for everyone to be comfortable is key. 

Set the Ambiance From the Front Door

Comfort starts from the minute guests arrive at your home. Turn your overhead lights off and set the tone of the event with a ton of candles and a stellar playlist. Make a fire in the fireplace for those chilly days to welcome your guests into a cozy atmosphere. If it is nice outside, I like to open the windows to bring fresh air in and help regulate the temperature when I have lots of people over.

Casa Zuma

Daybreak Candle

48 at Casa Zuma

Parachute

The Parachute Candle

$54 at Parachute

Start Your Party With A Self-Serve Bar

When guests arrive for a party, I always point them in the direction of my self-serve bar. This takes a step out of my prep while making my guests feel at home with a drink they know they will love. I like to line up fun glassware on my dining table with a mixture of different drink ingredients (and some non-alcoholic drink options). 

Casa Zuma

Recycled Glass Goblets, Set of 4

78 at Casa Zuma

Sophie Lou Jacobsen

Totem Glasses, Set of 2

$110 at Sophie Lou Jacobsen

Remember to Relax!

Holiday parties are only fun when the host can relax and have fun too! My guests will feel the most relaxed when I am relaxed and having fun as well. I like to dress in something super comfortable and shoes that I can wear all night long. 

Emme Parsons

Leandra Patent-Leather Mary Jane Pumps

$275 (reg. $550) at Net-a-Porter

Perfect The Guest Room

When you have someone staying over, the guest room is their safe space and you want them to feel as close to home as possible. I like to make sure the bed in the guest room is perfectly made in cozy colors and textures so your guest can stumble right into bed after what could be a long travel day.

My favorites for a guest bed are Percale Sheets and Cloud Cotton Quilt. My guest room is always stocked with phone chargers, extra toiletries, and other things that could’ve been forgotten. I also like to keep a stylish carafe on the nightstand so they don’t have to wander through the kitchen in the middle of the night. P.S. A robe is a nice touch as well!

Parachute

Percale Sheet Set

From $259 at Parachute

Parachute

Organic Cloud Cotton Quilt

$289 at Parachute

Parachute

Cozy Knit Robe

$179 at Parachute

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Stock The Fridge

When your guests are coming for an overnight trip or the weekend, stock your fridge with their favorite things. For your friends with allergies or dietary restrictions, make sure you have something to put in their coffee and snacks in case! 

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I live (yes, LIVE) for movie nights. When work wraps up and I shut my computer down for the night, I want to do one of three things: Get cozy with friends and my fam, settle in for a night of indulgent movie-watching, or whip up a new recipe in the kitchen. Well, if you’re planning the ultimate Christmas movie night, why not go for all three?

5 Themes to Inspire Your Best-Ever Christmas Movie Night

That’s right, we can, should, and will have it all. (Hold up—should that be my New Year’s mantra?) To set things in motion, I’ve rounded up ideas to help you throw the best-ever movie night. Because when we’re gathering around the TV to watch a classic holiday romcom or Netflix Christmas original, we should be going all in. I’m talking all the best snacks plus all the best movies plus all the best people (your people, of course). So if you’re looking for one last way to celebrate the holiday before the big day itself, look no further than all the inspiration you’ll find below. I’ve combed the internet for all the best Christmas movies and holiday-appropriate recipes to go with them. Get ready to dig in.

Cozy Classics

Transport yourself to a simpler, cozier time with a holiday movie night that feels like stepping into a vintage postcard. Dim the lights, light the fireplace (or a festive candle), and settle in with timeless classics like It’s a Wonderful Life, Miracle on 34th Street, and White Christmas. These beloved films are more than just entertainment—they’re a warm reminder of the magic of connection, family, and the beauty of the season.

No nostalgic evening is complete without festive treats to match the cozy vibe. Elevate your snacking game with a decadent hot chocolate board, complete with marshmallows, peppermint sticks, and whipped cream. For a savory touch, whip up a stunning tarte soleil—a buttery, pull-apart pastry that’s as beautiful as it is delicious. Arrange everything on a vintage tray or holiday platter, and you’ve got yourself the ultimate old-fashioned feast. These little details bring a sense of wonder and charm, making your night of holiday nostalgia feel truly magical.

The Movies: We’ve done the hard work rounding up the best classic holiday films.

The Recipes: Hot Chocolate Board, Tarte Soleil

Rom-Com Wonderland

Set the stage for a holiday movie night filled with charm, laughter, and a touch of romance. Whether it’s tales of unexpected connections, snowy escapes, or serendipitous moments, these films offer the perfect mix of heartwarming stories and holiday cheer. Create an intimate setting with plenty of cozy blankets, twinkling string lights, and a roaring fire (or a flickering candle, if that’s more your speed). The magic of the season is front and center, and with a little planning, you’ll have a movie night as memorable as the meet-cutes on screen.

To complement the romantic vibes, serve up festive treats that are as delightful as the plot twists. A dairy-free nogtini makes the perfect holiday cocktail, creamy and spiced to perfection. Pair it with homemade churros and caramel sauce for dipping—crispy, sweet, and undeniably indulgent. These thoughtful additions elevate the experience, making your movie night a cozy celebration of the love, laughter, and surprises that make the holidays so special.

The Movies: Love Actually, The Holiday, While You Were Sleeping

The Recipes: Dairy-Free Nogtini, Homemade Churros + Caramel Sauce

Family Fun Flicks

Bring everyone together for a joyful holiday movie night that’s as magical as the season itself. From animated classics to laugh-out-loud comedies, these family-friendly films are guaranteed to delight kids and adults alike. Set the scene with holiday-themed pajamas for the whole crew and plenty of comfy seating. Add a touch of festive magic by crafting a DIY hot chocolate bar—think rich cocoa, whipped cream, sprinkles, and homemade marshmallows for a fun and interactive treat.

Whip up a creative snack station to make the evening even more memorable. Build waffle gingerbread houses for a hands-on activity that doubles as dessert, or pair your hot chocolate with funfetti holiday marshmallows that melt into every cup. These sweet touches, combined with heartwarming movies, create an evening of laughter, connection, and unforgettable family moments.

The Movies: The Polar Express, Elf, Home Alone

The Recipes: Waffle Gingerbread House, Homemade Funfetti Holiday Marshmallows

Christmas Comedies

If your holiday motto is “the more laughs, the merrier,” this movie night theme is for you. Gather your friends or family for a night of Christmas comedies that deliver nonstop giggles and classic one-liners. Before pressing play, kick off the fun with a holiday-themed trivia game to test everyone’s festive knowledge. From absurd holiday mishaps to cheeky humor, these films are guaranteed to keep spirits bright and laughter flowing.

To fuel the festivities, create a snack spread that’s as delightful as the movies themselves. A cookie grazing board offers a whimsical mix of festive treats, while a dips and crudité board balances the sweetness with savory bites. With a cozy setup and plenty of humor, this is the ultimate way to unwind and enjoy the lighter side of the holiday season.

The Movies: National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation, Bad Santa, The Santa Clause

The Recipes: Cookie Grazing Board, Dips & Crudité Grazing Board

Modern Christmas Magic

For a fresh spin on holiday movie night, embrace the charm of modern Christmas magic. These newer classics bring festive cheer with heartwarming stories, witty humor, and beautiful visuals that capture the essence of the season. Transform your space with fairy lights, cozy blankets, and a sprinkling of contemporary decor to set the scene for an unforgettable evening of holiday joy.

Sip on seasonal mocktails or indulge in boozy peppermint hot chocolate to elevate the experience. The rich, velvety flavors of the drinks pair perfectly with the feel-good vibes of the films, creating a cozy yet chic atmosphere. With this modern take on Christmas movie night, you’ll rediscover the magic of the season in the most delightful way.

The Movies: Holidate, A Boy Called Christmas, Klaus

The Recipes: Boozy Peppermint Hot Chocolate

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With the holidays quickly approaching and festivity in the air, entertaining is top of mind. And around here, we’re big believers that gatherings can not only be fun—they can also be shockingly easy. There are, of course, the common concerns every host has. How do you feed lots of people and have hot food still be hot when it reaches the table? How can you keep everyone happy while making sure that you have a little (or a lot) of fun, too? And how the heck do you do it all on a budget?

6 Common Holiday Hosting Hurdles and How To Solve Them

With the arrival of the biggest entertaining season of the year, we’re addressing all the common holiday hosting hurdles and hopefully, convincing you to just go for it. Entertaining doesn’t have to be scary! (It can—and should—be fun.) Perfectionists especially, this one’s for you.

It’s Too Expensive

It certainly can be, but only if you let it. I’m writing this as a repeat offender when it comes to over-ordering for the table and the party. I want everyone to have options and feel like their tastes and preferences were taken into consideration. Plus, I always want to buy or serve the “best of the best,” however that’s subjective and only really caters to my own preferences. 

When it comes to food and drink, keep it simple and don’t overdo it. Focus on a few key items to serve, share with your guests, and encourage them to bring something in addition to what you’re serving if they prefer. 

It’s worth noting that just because you’re hosting at your place (for whatever reason) doesn’t mean you’re required to pay for everything. Every Fourth of July, I host friends and their families to watch the fireworks and swim at my place. We go all out, have a grill out during the day, order in pizza at night, have every drink you can imagine, and it’s great time. And every single time, even though it’s my treat, I get Venmo’s at the end of the night from pals who wanted to pitch in. I never expect it because it’s a tradition I love to do, but it’s a nice gesture. Don’t be afraid to let your pals know you’re happy to host the place if everyone would like to pitch in for food and drink. 

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The House Is Too Small

Time to get creative! I live in a one-bedroom apartment that isn’t terribly small, but also isn’t the best for entertaining due to the layout and my furniture. One sectional, a few barstools, and no table and chairs means a lot more standing. But once I open my balcony doors (which opens up to at least four more spots to sit and walk around), the space feels a bit bigger. The key is knowing how many people have a spot to sit and feel comfortable inside and what kind of party you can host. 

Because I’m limited on furniture, my space is best for pre-dinner cocktails and light bites or a great spot to watch the fireworks downtown on the Fourth of July or New Year’s Eve. A dinner party or game night? I’d need to buy a table and chairs and reconfigure my layout. Don’t let the size or layout of your space hinder you, just get creative. 

My Place Isn’t Fully Decorated or Ready

Well this one certainly hits home. It feels like I’m always waiting for a refresh to my furniture, art (or lack thereof), and hosting amenities like a sound system, games, etc. before I’ll have anyone over.

The truth is that no one is paying attention to the details like you are. Chances area they’re just there for the quality time.

One of my most recent and fun hangs was a game night a friend hosted while she was remodeling her home. (And truthfully, I didn’t even notice). If you feel like you need to spruce up your space, you’d be amazed what $100 can get you at Target with new throw pillows, candles, serving boards, and even one piece of small art. It really doesn’t take much. 

I’m Not a Good Cook

Do you have to be? There are so many alternatives. Trader Joe’s practically caters (not literally) to the at-home entertainer. Take one look down their frozen aisle and cheese section and you’ve got all the options you need. Not close to a TJ’s? Ask your guests to bring a small side dish or help fill out a snack board. A recent party I went to just asked guests to bring their favorite cheese and/or meat for a massive cheese board. Instant crowd pleaser and fun to see what guests brought. There’s always an option of ordering-in, catering, or calling your favorite restaurant and placing a to-go order with enough advanced notice. Point is, you don’t have to be a good cook to entertain. 

I’m Overwhelmed With a Menu

This is relatable, and where my perfectionist side comes into play. The easiest thing I’ve done was left it to the pros and consulted entertaining menu plans from pals like Gaby Dalkin of What’s Gaby Cooking and our very own Camille Styles who always comes through with her expert hosting tips.

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I Get Stuck on a Theme

I love a theme party! (Actually love is modest, I thrive at one.) While I don’t think all parties need a theme, it sure is fun to see how people interpret one and opens the night up to some great conversations. We wrote previously about high/low wine pairings and think it’s fun to approach a theme party in the same vein. Come up with something a little unexpected and unique. You can even try considering what’s the exact opposite end of the spectrum of your initial idea? 

Party themes to inspire you:

• Merry & Bright: A Sparkle Soirée. Guests dress in shimmering attire, and the decor features twinkling lights, metallic accents, and plenty of sparkle. Champagne cocktails and glittery desserts set the mood.
• Holiday Movie Marathon Mixer. Celebrate with themed cocktails and snacks inspired by iconic holiday films. Think “Elf”-themed candy spreads or “Home Alone”-style pizza bites.
• Apres-Ski Chic. Transform your space into a cozy lodge with hot toddies, faux fur throws, and a s’mores station. Guests come decked out in their best winter après-ski attire.
• Around the World in 12 Drinks. Take a global tour of holiday cocktails, with each drink representing a different country’s seasonal tradition. Pair with small bites to match.

And to completely contradict this statement, you can also keep it simple and host a gathering around an upcoming holiday, birthday, etc. Or, you can go with no theme at all! We’ve found a lot of inspiration from Pinterest, Etsy, and even Paperless Post, but if something isn’t coming naturally, don’t force it. 

We hope this inspires you to go for it. And remember: It’s the time with friends that matters more than the art on your wall, the theme of the night, or whether you nailed the baked brie. (Though if that’s where your anxieties lie, this recipe is foolproof.)

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Out of all the gatherings throughout the year, Thanksgiving is one of the most special. Sharing a feast with family and friends is a moment to be cherished, and it’s even better when the table is decked in beautiful details. Thanksgiving table decor is an art in and of itself, and Camille’s tables are always a feast for the senses. Creating a beautiful tablescape doesn’t have to be complicated, and the extra effort that goes into thoughtful place settings and decor makes everyone feel taken care of.

If you’re hosting Thanksgiving this year, or perhaps you’re in charge of ambiance and aesthetics, we’ve rounded up Camille’s Thanksgiving tables throughout the years below with links to shop the look, of course. They’re sure to provide you with tons of cozy inspo for your table this year. Read on for more!

Opt for Neutrals and Texture

It’s no surprise Camille loves neutrals, and a neutral color palette makes for simple and beautiful Thanksgiving table decor. To keep neutrals far from boring, be sure to include lots of different textures. This tablescape is a perfect example of layered textures, from the wicker placemats to the soft linens. Even the ribbed dishes and grass napkin rings are all layered seamlessly. The rest of the decor consists of dried florals, candles, fruit and cheese—easy items to have on hand all season long.

Read more: Camille’s Warm and Natural Thanksgiving Table

Wheat Napkin Rings

$16.99 (reg. $29.50) at Pottery Barn

Handwoven Wicker Oval Placemat

$29.50 at Pottery Barn

Ridge Textured Stoneware Dinner Plate

$32.99 (reg. $56) at Pottery Barn

Marble Lazy Susan

$79.50 at Pottery Barn

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Let Nature Inspire You

The colors during this time of year are simply stunning—all you have to do is look outside. Whether you’re struck by the changing leaves or seasonal produce, inspiration abounds when you look to nature. Adding color to your tablescape is easy when you consider seasonal fruit as Thanksgiving table decor. Keep your dishes neutral, then sprinkle the center of your table with cracked open pomegranates, figs, pears and cheese. Add sprigs of whatever greenery you have in your backyard (these are branches from Camille’s olive tree) and if you want even more color, choose linens in soft, warm shades.

Read more: Camille’s Cozy, Hygge-Inspired Thanksgiving Table

Everything Board

$145 at Casa Zuma

Belgian Linen Table Runner

$59 at Pottery Barn

Playa Dinner Plate, Set of 4

$192 at Casa Zuma

Mason Oversized Linen Napkins, Set of 4

$48 at Pottery Barn

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Add Pumpkins to Your Table

Before you retire pumpkins from your home post-Halloween, consider using them for your Thanksgiving table decor. It is still autumn after all, and orange and green pumpkins look beautiful among white linens and fall foliage. Camille opted for gorgeous caramel colored stoneware plates here, and a tablescape wouldn’t be complete without drippy candles. And don’t forget to include a cheese plate as part of the decor too—Camille’s three-ingredient appetizer works as a two for one. Simply place a hunk of good cheese on your plate, then surround it with crackers and fruit. (figs and pomegranate never miss this time of year!)

Darra Natural Recycled Stoneware Dinner Plates, Set Of 4

$46.99 at CB2

Marin White Oversized European Flax Linen Tablecloth

$199.95 at Pottery Barn

Taper Candles, Set of 6

$22 (reg. $38) at Serena and Lily

Handmade Ceramic Vase

$89 at Etsy

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Keep It Simple

Let’s be real—there’s a lot to do on Thanksgiving day. If thinking about a beautiful tablescape on top of cooking and keeping your guests entertained feels stressful, remember that your Thanksgiving table decor can be simple and unfussy. Plus, Camille always sets her table the night before so there’s one less thing to do. This warm and cozy tablescape includes casual linens, rustic place settings, and a simple bowl of seasonal produce that serves as a beautiful centerpiece. There’s nothing over complicated about this table setting—the key is to keep it casual.

Sabre Teak Flatware

$76 at Casa Zuma

Mango Wood Serving Platter

$118 at Casa Zuma

Linen Table Throw

$80 at Casa Zuma

Recycled Glass Petite Goblets, Set of 4

$78 at Casa Zuma

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Play With Pattern

While this isn’t Camille’s Thanksgiving table, we had to include Betsy Sadler’s cozy fall tablescape because… well, look at it. It’s gorgeous! Her table is dotted with woven placemats and plenty of neutrals, but what makes this table especially memorable is the black and white tablecloth. Don’t be afraid to play with patterns for your Thanksgiving tablescape! Even a subtle pattern like this one will add visual interest and coziness to your place settings.

Atelier Saucier Noir Royale Tablecloth

$278 at West Elm

Handcrafted Wood Salad Bowl

$225 at Casa Zuma

Mango Wood Serving Spoons

$24 at Casa Zuma

Woven Placemats

$35 at Saffron + Poe

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In the past, I often found myself tiptoeing around hard conversations, driven by the desire to keep the peace and avoid discomfort. The thought of bringing up topics that might disrupt the natural flow of conversation felt daunting—I worried that my words could cast a shadow over what should be a joyful gathering. However, as the years have passed, I’ve come to understand that these difficult discussions are not obstacles but rather gateways to deeper connections. While the holidays can sometimes be a whirlwind of laughter and cheer, they also provide a unique opportunity to engage in meaningful dialogue that truly resonates and touches upon our shared experiences.

Featured image from our interview with Elisa Marshall by Suruchi Avasthi.

How to Have Hard Conversations to Foster Compassion & Connection

Ultimately, the essence of the holidays lies in connection—celebrating the bonds we share with family and friends. By inviting thoughtful conversation, we create space for reflection, understanding, and empathy. It’s in these candid exchanges that we can discover new facets of each other, reinforcing the love and support that exists in our relationships.

As you navigate the festive season, remember that the hardest conversations can lead to the most rewarding connections.

Embrace the challenge, and allow the spirit of the holidays to guide you toward heartfelt discussions that enrich your connections with those you hold dear.

1. Understanding the Importance of Hard Conversations

Embracing hard conversations means leaning into vulnerability. When we ask the questions that require us to pause, reflect, and dig deeper, we open the door for others to share their truths. This act of courage can transform a casual exchange into a genuine exploration of thoughts, feelings, and experiences that often lie just beneath the surface. It is in these moments of shared openness that we foster a sense of intimacy, allowing us to connect in ways that transcend small talk. After all, the holiday season is an opportunity not just to gather but to truly see one another.

The Role of Vulnerability

Vulnerability serves as the cornerstone of authentic connections. It allows us to peel back the layers we often use to shield ourselves from scrutiny. As I’ve grown older, I’ve learned to value vulnerability all the more. It empowers me to share my fears, uncertainties, and even my joys, inviting others into my inner world. What’s more, vulnerability also fosters an atmosphere of trust and openness. This willingness to be seen in my rawness not only deepens my relationships but also encourages others to reciprocate, creating a cycle of mutual understanding and compassion.

Diving into uncomfortable topics can feel daunting, but as I’ve discovered, it’s in these discussions that we unearth the richest revelations. By addressing the hard truths that linger beneath the surface, we pave the way for transformative dialogue that transcends the superficial. In this space of vulnerability, we discover that our struggles and triumphs resonate far beyond our individual experiences, reminding us that we are never truly alone.

Moving Beyond Small Talk

During holiday gatherings, surface-level conversations often dominate. The result? We’re left with little room for the deeper connections we crave. While small talk serves its purpose, it can feel like a series of polite exchanges that barely scratch the surface of our true selves. This tendency to stick to the safe and familiar limits our interactions. Engaging in meaningful dialogue, on the other hand, creates a sense of intimacy and understanding. By prioritizing these authentic conversations, we have an opportunity to strengthen our bonds and cultivate a more profound appreciation for one another, transforming holiday gatherings into moments of connection and growth.

2. Preparing for Hard Conversations

When it comes to navigating holiday discussions, identifying appropriate topics can set the stage for meaningful dialogue. Consider exploring personal challenges from the past year. You may find that sharing these experiences can encourage empathy and understanding. Family dynamics can also be a good place to start. They allow us to reflect on our roles, relationships, and growth within these relationships.

Of course, be cautious when diving into current events. With this being an election year, emotions may be heightened and you may find it difficult to reach common ground. However, they can also provide an opportunity to engage in thoughtful discussions about the world around us, encouraging diverse perspectives and insights. Be mindful of what may work for your particular context—and realize when it might be most beneficial to step back.

Setting Intentions

Setting clear intentions before engaging in difficult conversations is essential for guiding the dialogue and setting a safe environment. Take a moment to reflect on what you hope to achieve:

• Is it to deepen your understanding of a loved one’s perspective?
• Are you seeking to address a lingering issue or to simply create a space for open expression?

By sharing your intentions, you establish a framework that can help steer the conversation in a positive direction. This clarity not only keeps you focused but also invites others to participate with openness and honesty. As you approach these discussions with intention, you create the potential for transformative connections, letting you navigate these conversations with grace and understanding.

3. Tips for Initiating Hard Conversations

Starting conversations with open-ended questions can be a powerful catalyst for deeper reflection.

• Instead of: “Did you enjoy the holidays?” Try: “What was the most memorable moment for you this holiday season?” or “How did you navigate any challenges this year?”

This will encourage others to share their thoughts and feelings more fully, inviting them to explore their experiences in a way that feels both safe and engaging.

Practicing Active Listening

Remember: It’s not just about hearing the words spoken—it’s about truly understanding the emotions and intentions behind them. By maintaining eye contact, nodding, and offering thoughtful responses, we communicate that we value and respect the other person’s perspective. This not only creates a mutual understanding but also encourages them to be more vulnerable and honest, ultimately deepening the relationship. In a world that often prioritizes quick responses, taking the time to listen actively can transform the quality of our interactions.

Be Mindful of Tone and Body Language

Non-verbal cues are key! Facial expressions, gestures, and posture can impact how our messages are received. For instance, an open posture and warm tone can convey acceptance and empathy, while crossed arms or a flat tone might signal defensiveness or disinterest. By consciously aligning our body language and tone with our message, we create a safe space for dialogue. This not only helps set a positive tone for the conversation but also establishes an environment where everyone feels heard and respected.

4. Navigating Discomfort

Embracing awkwardness is an essential aspect of navigating hard conversations, as discomfort often accompanies moments of vulnerability and authenticity. Acknowledging this unease can transform it from a barrier into a bridge for connection. Rather than shying away from the awkward silences or hesitant pauses, take a moment to breathe deeply. This serves as a reminder that it’s okay to feel uncomfortable. By reframing these moments as opportunities for growth and understanding, we can cultivate a more compassionate approach to hard conversations.

Staying Present

Staying present during challenging discussions is crucial for maintaining a sense of calm and clarity. Mindfulness techniques, such as focusing on your breath or practicing grounding exercises, can help anchor you in the moment. When feelings of anxiety or frustration arise, taking a brief pause to inhale deeply and exhale slowly can create space for reflection and response rather than reaction. By nurturing this mindful awareness, you can engage fully and thoughtfully, transforming potentially overwhelming discussions into moments of connection.

Embracing Hard Conversations as Opportunities for Growth

Ultimately, the goal of these hard conversations isn’t simply to exchange words but to foster deeper understanding and grow stronger in our relationships. By embracing the awkwardness and remaining present, you allow the discomfort to pave the way for growth. As you navigate these tough discussions, remember that the journey toward deeper connection often lies in our willingness to engage with discomfort, ultimately leading you to a place of greater empathy and clarity.

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If there’s one thing you can count on with my family, we bring the fun. No matter the time of year—whether it’s the holidays or we’re just getting together—we’re an easygoing bunch. We’re easily entertained and don’t take ourselves too seriously. But we also know we’re not the norm, and not all family tables or gatherings are created equally. Sometimes, family dynamics can be difficult to navigate for any number of reasons. Because of that, Thanksgiving can be tough for some to get excited about. Thankfully, conversation starters exist to keep the focus on fun and cultivating meaningful conversations.

With the holidays right around the corner, we decided to lean into the spirit of what they’re really about: building connections and showing up with presence and curiosity. The good news is that these Thanksgiving conversation starters work for all gatherings, any time of the year. We hope these spark ideas for infusing levity and intention with your family or friends during this special, sacred season.

How to Spark Meaningful Connection This Holiday Season

The beauty of a good conversation starter is that it can shift the energy of a room instantly. Whether you’re sitting down with close family, reconnecting with friends, or meeting new faces for the first time, thoughtful questions can create space for everyone to feel seen and heard. And it’s not about asking anything groundbreaking—sometimes the simplest questions lead to the most meaningful exchanges. A lighthearted “What’s the best meal you’ve had this year?” can spark a conversation that lingers long after the plates are cleared.

Sometimes the simplest questions lead to the most meaningful exchanges.

But conversation starters are just one piece of the puzzle when it comes to hosting a seamless Thanksgiving gathering. Creating a warm, welcoming environment goes beyond what’s said at the table—it’s about thoughtful touches that make everyone feel comfortable and cared for. With a little planning, you can cultivate an atmosphere that feels as joyful and meaningful as the conversations shared. Consider exploring one or more of the ideas below.

Support Your Host or Ask for Support

One of the best gifts you can take off your host’s plate is logistics. Save the day and ask to “project manage” the holiday gathering. Want to make it even more fun? Pick a co-host. You’re helping with everything from coordinating: 

• Which guests bring what (drinks, appetizers, sides, desserts, etc.)
• Table decor or utensils if needed
• Who curates the playlist 
• Who helps with invites, name placements, etc.

It’s such a huge help when you can count on 1-2 people to pitch in and is a surefire way to build a beautiful and memorable experience together.

Bring Games

This is a fun time to get creative. There’s no shortage of card decks to generate fun and light conversations at the table, board games to appeal to all age groups, or good old-fashioned yard games set up in the backyard. I’m from the Midwest, so it’s not uncommon to see family playing cornhole before or after our holiday meal. And if your family is football-loving, you could spark a friendly betting pool on which team will win, who will sing the national anthem, or how many celebrities you can spot in the stands. 

Read more: The Best Game Night Games That Are Anything But Boring

Pick a Family to Support Over the Holidays

Our family used to pick names for our Secret Santa every Thanksgiving, but as we’ve gotten older, we’ve become a family that chooses experiences and trips over gifts. That said, we love giving back, and in the spirit of making other’s holidays great, too, why not choose a family to support over the holidays? Everyone can pitch in a desired amount, and thanks to the help of organizations like the Salvation Army, they make it easy to find a family or kids to give back to during the holidays. 

Create a New Tradition 

Over the years, I’ve been inspired by families starting new traditions. A few ideas to consider as a group: 

• Run/walk your local Turkey Trot
• Pick up trash around your morning lake walk 
• Volunteer at a shelter 
• Deliver blankets to shelters
• Go to a performance, like the Nutcracker
• Host a baking or cooking contest (the more pies, the merrier)
• Take a family photo
• Bake cookies and deliver to a hospital
• Make a group video where everyone tosses out one goal they have for the year ahead and watch the video the next year during the holidays

There are endless possibilities for creating new traditions or connecting with family and friends in ways you haven’t before.

50 Thanksgiving Conversation Starters to Spark Meaningful Connection

We don’t think this is a novel or groundbreaking idea, but the sheer intention behind asking great questions goes so far. If you’re not into a card deck that prompts questions, you could either make your own, ask everyone to contribute and pull out of a hat, or simply come prepared with a few of your own. This is especially great if you’re attending a holiday as a new partner, a guest, or want to get to know your own family or friends more intimately.

It’s helpful to have a few topics in your back pocket for those moments when conversation stalls or takes an unexpected turn. From gratitude-focused questions to ones that tap into childhood memories or future dreams, these Thanksgiving conversation starters are designed to foster connection without feeling forced. After all, a great holiday isn’t about the perfect meal or flawless decor. It’s about being fully present and making memories with the people gathered around the table.

Thoughtful Conversation Starters

1. What are you most thankful for this year?
2. What’s one thing you want to accomplish before the year ends?
3. What’s your best takeaway or learning from this year?
4. If you had five minutes to call someone right now, who would it be?
5. Where is one place you’ve visited that surprised you?
6. What do you hope your legacy in life is?
7. What’s one thing you’ve done this year that made you proud?
8. Who has impacted your life the most this year?
9. What’s a new habit or routine you’ve adopted recently?
10. What’s one lesson you wish you’d learned sooner in life?

Light-Hearted Conversation Starters

1. What would your Real Housewives tagline be?
2. What’s the best purchase you made this year?
3. What’s something you can’t stop talking about?
4. If I gave you $100 right now, what would you do with it?
5. How often do you use Amazon/Instacart/Uber Eats?
6. What’s the funniest thing that happened to you recently?
7. What’s one food you refuse to eat—even on Thanksgiving?
8. If you could swap lives with a celebrity for a day, who would it be?
9. What song is currently stuck in your head?
10. If your life were a movie, what genre would it be?

Conversation Starters for Close Friends and Family

1. What do you think people would say your best quality is?
2. What’s one thing on your to-do list that you keep putting off?
3. What family tradition means the most to you?
4. If we could plan a group vacation anywhere in the world, where would we go?
5. What’s one thing we should do together more often?
6. What’s a hidden talent you’ve never shared?
7. If you could relive any moment we’ve had together, which one would it be?
8. What’s the best piece of advice a family member has given you?
9. Who makes you laugh the hardest at the dinner table?
10. How do you prefer to spend quality time with people you love?

Introspective Conversation Starters

1. What do you wish more people understood about you?
2. What’s the hardest decision you’ve made this year?
3. How do you handle stressful situations during the holidays?
4. What’s a personal value you hold close to your heart?
5. If you could change one habit, what would it be?
6. What motivates you to keep going when things get tough?
7. How do you recharge when you’re feeling overwhelmed?
8. What’s something you’ve learned about yourself this year?
9. If you could sum up this year in one word, what would it be?
10. How do you define success for yourself?

Playful Conversation Starters

1. If you could invent a holiday, what would it celebrate?
2. What’s your go-to karaoke song?
3. If you had to eat one meal for the rest of your life, what would it be?
4. What superpower do you wish you had?
5. If you could teleport anywhere right now, where would you go?
6. Which fictional character do you relate to the most?
7. What would you do first if you won the lottery tomorrow?
8. If you could only wear one outfit forever, what would it be?
9. Which animal best represents your personality?
10. What’s the weirdest dream you’ve ever had?

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There’s never been a better time to gather, though it often feels counterintuitive to our schedules. Our lives are full and our attention is in a deficit, so we look for things to remove from the calendar. For invitations to decline. The problem is, we RSVP “yes” to what we think will give us rest but “no” to what truly fills us up.

And it makes sense. Social events can feel overwhelming—like the effort isn’t worth the payoff. But I have found time and time again, in these moments of unrest and near exhaustion, that nothing fills your soul like gathering people around the table for a meal. If you’re wondering how to host your first dinner party, this guide will walk you through each step to ensure your gathering is memorable and stress-free.

Why Dinner Parties Matter

Hosting a dinner party is an opportunity to serve and be served. Your body might be tired, sure. But it’s the conversation and laughs, the warm food, and relationships we cultivate around a table. These things can’t be replicated with a Netflix binge. If you’re a first-time host, I’ve got good news for you—it’s much simpler than it sounds. Forget the Pinterest boards and TikTok re-caps for a second.

The heart of a dinner party is simply this: to create a warm space for people to connect.

Of course, we can’t help but love some aesthetics along the way. But remember Maya Angelou’s insightful words—for life and, perhaps, dinner parties: “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”

To help you host your first dinner party, I’ve created this easy-to-follow beginner’s guide to hosting so you can bring people together, serve them great food, host meaningful conversations, and leave your guests feeling full in every type of way.

Set the Date and Send Invitations Early

The first step in hosting a dinner party is to choose a date that works for you and your potential guests and commit. If your life is anything like mine, it can be hard to pin people down on a whim. But that’s where we get into the trap of, “We should get together soon!”—and then we never do. Even if you have to plan a month in advance to secure a spot on your guests’ calendar, do it. And when you gather RSVPs, ask about dietary restrictions and preferences so you can build a menu everyone will enjoy.

Plan Your Menu Thoughtfully

When it comes to planning the dinner party menu, simplicity is key. Select dishes you’re comfortable making and ideally, ones can prepare in advance. The reason is twofold: not only does it reduce stress, but it also allows you to enjoy the party with your guests. These dinner party menu ideas are tried and true—all crowdpleasers and easy to prep before people arrive.

Prep Ahead and Stay Organized

Preparation is the key to a stress-free dinner party. Do as much as you can in advance—chop vegetables, set out the dishes for the table, and organize your serving dishes. I love “the magic question” as coined by Kendra Adachi: What can I do now to make things easier later? Even the simplest tasks add up: wash your fruit after breakfast, mix up a marinade the night before, and write down a list of conversation starters on your lunch break. Then, on the day of the event, give yourself at least a couple of hours before guests arrive to handle any last-minute tasks.

Here’s one of my favorite dinner party tips: purposefully leave tasks for guests who are eager to help. It gives them a stake in the game and something to do if they arrive and feel nervous or awkward. A few ideas: put out a stack of plates and flatware for a guest to set the table, ask them to fill up water glasses, or pass them a matchbook to light candles.

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Set the Scene With a Welcoming Ambiance

It doesn’t take much to set the scene. Make it part of the fun by beginning the day with a trip to your local flower shop—or Trader Joe’s. If you’re feeling extra ambitious, you could even forage branches from the yard and recreate some of our favorite tablescape ideas. Set flowers or branches in vessels on the table, in the kitchen, and in the bathroom. Bringing natural elements like fresh flowers, greenery, and candles creates a warm and inviting atmosphere.

Keep the sensory experience going with music on low—the Casa Zuma Daybreak playlist is dinner party perfection.

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Greet Your Guests With a Drink

Your guests are confirmed, menu is planned, food is prepped, and the stage is set. Now it’s time to host. Welcome guests with a drink offering—anything from a cocktail to wine to sparkling water to still water and lemon works. It’s less about what’s in the glass and more about giving your guests an immediate signal to relax, setting the mood for the party.

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Recycled Stemless Wine Glasses

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Recycled Glass Tumbler

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How to Keep Guests Engaged at Your First Dinner Party

Now for the fun part! The best dinner parties are about more than just food—they’re about connection. Prepare a few conversation starters ahead of time to get things rolling. Here are a few favorites:

• If you were going to open a restaurant, what would the concept be?
• What’s the strangest thing you believed as a child?
• When you were a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up?
• If a movie was made of your life, who would play you?
• Who is the most famous person you’ve ever met?
• What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve ever done?
• What was your favorite birthday? What made it special?
• What do you most want to accomplish on your bucket list?

You can even go so far as to write them down on index cards and hide them under guests’ plates—a little “surprise and delight,” if you will. Encourage everyone to participate, and be ready with a story or two to get things rolling.

Serve a Crowd-Pleasing Dessert

A dinner party isn’t complete without dessert. You can prep treats like cookies and cakes ahead of time, or just pick up a gallon of ice cream—no one will complain. Here’s a list of desserts to feed a crowd if you need a few ideas (may I suggest this gluten-free chocolate cake for a simple make-ahead recipe or these salted caramel pots de creme for an indulgent ending).

Be Present and Enjoy the Moment

Finally, remember that the purpose of a dinner party is to enjoy the company of your guests. Don’t get too caught up in perfection—focus on having fun and creating memories. Resist the pull to tidy up while guests are still enjoying themselves. The table will clear and the kitchen will get clean—all in good time. Your guests will appreciate the effort you’ve put into the evening and will remember the warmth and hospitality you’ve shown.

Practice “Closing Ceremonies”

Just as you started the evening with intention, it’s important to end the evening well. Look guests in the eye and thank them for coming before they go on their way. You could even send them home with leftovers or a small bundle of flowers as a token for the night.

Now that you know what to do, here are a few common mistakes to learn from to ensure your first hosting experience is enjoyable for everyone involved:

• Overcomplicating the menu. We tend to go above our means when guests come over, leading to more time in the kitchen, not to mention money and stress. Keep it simple and impress guests with your ability to be present (and your time management!) instead of fancy dishes.
• Forgetting about diet restrictions. It’s good practice to ask guests ahead of time—the last thing you want is to serve a meal that makes guests feel uncomfortable at best or sick at worst.
• Doing everything yourself. If a dinner party is about connection, remember it’s okay to ask (or accept) help. Guests generally enjoy having a job so don’t be afraid to delegate.
• Letting the flow get too relaxed—or too structured. As the first-time host, your job is to keep things flowing. Strike a balance between structure and spontaneity. You can plan the general flow of the evening but remember to read the room—be flexible enough to adapt to the mood of your guests.
• Not engaging with guests and/or forgetting to have fun. Your place is at the table, not in the kitchen. Oddly enough, when you spend too much time in the kitchen or trying to make things perfect, it has the opposite effect and makes guests feel neglected. Remember that your attitude sets the tone for the evening. Relax, smile, and have fun—your guests will follow your lead.

In conclusion, you got this! By following these steps, you’ll master how to host your first dinner party with ease and confidence. Remember that hosting is first and foremost about people—put connection and hospitality over perfection. If you wait until the house is perfect, the weather is perfect, or the timing is perfect then it’s never gonna happen. And chances are, no one will notice those things anyway. What matters is your willingness to open your home and pass a plate of food. Because after all is said and done, it’s how you make them feel that counts the most.

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Little known fact: I started my career as an event planner for a catering company. It was actually the perfect first job for me, combining my passions for food, design, and gathering people together. (The downsides included insane hours and high-stress clients, but it was good experience for 22-year-old me.)

Though I’ve long been out of the event planning biz, I still love to host a party. But instead of the champagne towers and elaborate dessert bars of my past life, today my ideal type of gathering is a casual, kick-your-shoes-off affair, preferably outside in the sunshine. After all: everything tastes better al fresco!

Linen Table Throw

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That said, anyone who’s ever invited people for a casual backyard dinner knows: an outdoor party comes with its own set of challenges. Blazing sun, pesky mosquitos, maintaining food temperatures (and keeping the flies away) are details that can make or break the festivities. My background in catering, combined with the countless parties I’ve thrown through the years, has taught me some invaluable lessons that I employ to make my own gatherings feel (almost) effortless.

So today, we’re rounding up the most frequently asked questions I get about how to host a summer party. My hope is that you’ll be inspired to find the next open evening on your calendar (yep, weeknights work, too!) shoot a few texts to some friends, and grab some snacks to whip up a simple, delicious spread.

Read on for a handful of my tried-and-true secrets, and be sure to download our ultimate summer entertaining guide for all the menus, inspiration, and planning advice you need to host in style all season long.

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All your summer entertaining questions, answered

Q: What’s the best way to invite people to a casual summer party?

A: Three words: keep it chill. An invitation sets the tone, so for a simple outdoor party, don’t overthink it! In my opinion, a group text or email is the way to go. And I’ve found that when I make things really easy on myself, I’m naturally inclined to invite friends over more frequently. In addition to arrival time, I like to let people know the approximate time we’ll be eating so we’re not firing up the grill multiple times over the course of an evening (i.e., “come at 4 to swim, burgers at 6!”)

It’s also helpful to provide a loose dress code so people know what to expect. Swimsuits? Shorts? Summer dresses? Since summer parties can have drastically different dress expectations, everyone will appreciate a few clues as to what they should wear.

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Playa Salad Plate, Set of 4

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Q: What are some simple menu ideas? I feel like I’m always stuck in the kitchen while everyone else is outside having fun.

A: I have a few strategies to keep the menu simple—the one I choose will depend on the type of party and who’s coming. Here are some ideas to get you started:

Snacks for dinner. Summer is the perfect time to curate a delicious spread of store-bought staples with a few artisanal treats. Assemble a snacking board full of delicious cheeses, olives, crudités, dips, dried fruit, nuts—really your options are endless. Green goddess dressing is downright addictive, and the perfect accompaniment for any type of seasonal veggies.

El Matador Vase

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Espresso Cups, Set of 4, with Wooden Tray

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Semi-homemade feast. The goal is to be able to relax and hang out with your guests, so no matter how experienced a party thrower you are, it’s great to have a few hacks up your sleeve. To save tons of time, try a “semi-homemade” approach. Buy the main course from a fave spot (like a roast chicken from the deli, or bagels from your favorite bakery) and fill in with homemade sides and salads that can be made in advance and will make it feel like you cooked it all.

Throw it on the grill. Rule #1 when planning a menu: you don’t want to include anything that will have you cranking out food like a short-order cook when guests are there. Which is where the grill really comes in handy. I like to have my proteins already marinated or seasoned before guests show up so that all that’s left to do is throw them on the grill. Often, I’ll also grill the veggie sides to keep things really easy on myself—and keep clean-up to a minimum!

Need menu ideas? Get three simple menus—plus all the recipes—in the summer entertaining guide.

Mango Wood Serving Platter

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Sabre Ivory Flatware

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Q: How can you speed up grilling clean-up?

A: Grilling is one of the most low-maintenance ways to cook for a group—with a little know-how. Here are my tips for grilling clean-up that save tons of time:

• Oil the Grill Grates: Before grilling, oil the grates to prevent food from sticking. Use a brush or paper towel dipped in oil.
• Pre-Clean the Grill: While the grill is heating up, use a grill brush to scrape off any residue from previous cooking sessions.
• Marinate in Bags: Marinate meat and vegetables in resealable plastic bags. This reduces the number of dishes you need to clean. Then I use tongs to transfer them straight from bag to grill, so the only dish that’s actually getting used is what you’re serving it on.
• Clean While Warm: After cooking, while the grill is still warm (but not hot), use a brush to remove any remaining food particles.

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Recycled Stemless Wine Glass, Set of 4

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Q: What should I serve to drink that won’t leave me refilling glasses all night?

A: I sound like a broken record, but the key is to keep it as simple as possible—less time spent bartending means more time sipping cocktails yourself! For just about any summer occasion, you can get away with 3 drinks and call it a day:

A fun batched cocktail. Sangria, margaritas, punch—pre-mix a big pitcher, then let guests help themselves. A few favorite pitcher drinks? This Mezcal Paloma and this Strawberry Rosé Sangria are about as summery as they come. Aperol Spritz is a summer cocktail beloved by all, perfect for an Italian menu. Or, try a Blood Orange Margarita for a delicious twist on a classic.

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Sabre Serving Utensils

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A rosé or a white wine. This is a perfect item to have guests contribute when they ask what they can bring to the party.

Flavor-infused water. Fill a large carafe with water and add fruit or herbs for a festive touch. Bonus points for providing a fun non-alcoholic option like sparkling lemonade or iced tea.

A good rule of thumb is to plan for 1 1/2 drinks per person per hour. And at an outdoor summer party, always have more water and ice than you think you’ll need.

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Claire Blouse

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Q: What if it’s super hot on the day of my party?

A: Again, have way more water at the ready than you think you’ll need! And—sunscreen is a non-negotiable. Do your guests a favor and have some sunscreen available for them to reapply as needed (browse our favorite clean options.) I love the look of outdoor umbrellas, and I typically scatter 2 or 3 around a party space for lifesaving shade.

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Q: What are some good outdoor activities to keep the vibes high?

A: Go all in on the carefree vibes of summer and plan some classic party games and activities to make your gathering unforgettable. A few of my faves:

• Yard games like bocce ball, croquet, and cornhole are great for encouraging people to let loose and have a good time together.
• Music is crucial to the vibe, so don’t leave this to chance. My current favorite for hanging out and eating dinner is the Daybreak playlist from Casa Zuma. And you can always turn up the beat as the night goes on and see if an impromptu dance party breaks out.

Q: How can I cut the small talk and have engaging conversations?

A: You’re speaking my love language—good conversation is the key to any gathering! We put together a list of 30 conversation starters to inspire thoughtful and engaging chats. Keep a few of these in your back pocket and you’ll step into every interaction with confidence (and curiosity!) And I guarantee, the party will never get boring.

Answers to more FAQs in the guide:

• What about paper plates and plastic glasses—are they tacky?
• What’s an easy dessert option?
• How can I keep bugs at bay?
• How can I keep hot foods hot and cold foods cold?
• Plus, more high-vibe activities to keep the party going and—
• Three menus (and full-page recipes) so you’ll always know what to serve.

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There’s something endlessly fun—and juicy—about telling our deepest, darkest secrets. Whether it’s played with casual friends or our closest confidantes, there’s a reason “never have I ever” questions still intrigue us years after our first game. (Mine was middle school. Yours?) We feel giddy sharing something no one knows about us—surprising them and changing their perspective. And we feel seen when others can relate, knowing we’re not alone in the silly, beautiful goofiness of life. Sure, “Never Have I Ever” may just be a game-night favorite, but it’s also a way we grow closer to those around us.

And if you haven’t realized it yet, the game doesn’t have to be left in the past. “Never Have I Ever” never, ever gets old. It’s often how friends and I wrap up the evening, sitting around the fire or cozying up on the couch to bear our souls. (Yes, it can get intense.) I can guarantee, no matter how well you know each other at the beginning, the “never have I ever” questions ahead guarantee you’ll be fast friends by the end of the night.

How to Play “Never Have I Ever”

If it’s been a moment since you played “Never Have I Ever,” here’s a refresher.

Setup:

1. Gather Participants: The game can be played with any number of people, but a group of 4-10 is typically ideal.
2. Seating: Have everyone sit in a circle so all players can see each other.

Game Rules:

1. Starting the Game: One person starts by saying, “Never have I ever…” followed by something they have never done. For example, “Never have I ever been skydiving.”
2. Responding:
   • If a player has done what the speaker mentions, they must perform a predetermined action, depending on the type of game you’re playing. Typically, it’s either putting down one finger (if playing the “Ten Fingers” version) or taking a sip of a drink (if you’re getting a little rowdier).
   • If a player hasn’t done the action, the fingers stay up and/or the drink remains untouched.
3. Next Turn: Play continues around the circle, and the next person makes a “Never have I ever…” statement.

Winning the Game:

There isn’t a winner or loser in the traditional sense. The objective is mainly to have fun and get to know each other. However, for the competitive players among us, the last person with the most fingers remaining up (or the least drinks taken) can be considered the winner.

Top 10 Absolute Best “Never Have I Ever” Questions

The best questions can vary depending on the group playing the game. However, here are ten great questions that are versatile enough to be intriguing, revealing, and enjoyable for almost any group:

1. Never have I ever taken a risk that was completely worth it.
   • This question can lead to inspiring and motivational stories.
2. Never have I ever met someone at a bar.
   • A lighthearted question that can lead to funny or romantic stories.
3. Never have I ever pretended not to see someone, so I didn’t have to talk to them.
   • Often relatable and can lead to humorous confessions.
4. Never have I ever lied about myself on a dating app.
   • This can reveal funny and interesting tales about modern dating.
5. Never have I ever been caught in a compromising situation.
   • Likely to uncover some juicy and potentially embarrassing stories.
6. Never have I ever taken a solo trip.
   • Encourages sharing of personal growth experiences and adventurous tales.
7. Never have I ever changed someone’s mind about something important.
   • This can lead to discussions about persuasive skills and significant life impacts.
8. Never have I ever helped a stranger in need.
   • Opens up the floor to heartwarming and kind stories.
9. Never have I ever been fired from a job.
   • Can reveal interesting circumstances and learning experiences.
10. Never have I ever danced in an elevator.
    • A fun and light question that can lead to laughs and shared moments of spontaneity.

Juiciest Never Have I Ever Questions

1. Never have I ever eavesdropped on a conversation.
2. Never have I ever had a secret relationship.
3. Never have I ever lied about my marital status.
4. Never have I ever sent an anonymous gift.
5. Never have I ever spied on my neighbors.
6. Never have I ever stolen something from a restaurant (like a spoon or a glass).
7. Never have I ever had a crush on a teacher or professor.
8. Never have I ever made up a story about myself to impress someone.
9. Never have I ever had a wardrobe malfunction in public.
10. Never have I ever pretended to like a gift I hated.
11. Never have I ever snuck into a movie or concert.
12. Never have I ever lied about my job to sound cooler.
13. Never have I ever been caught in a compromising situation.
14. Never have I ever sent a text to the wrong person on purpose.
15. Never have I ever pretended not to see someone, so I didn’t have to talk to them.

Spicy Never Have I Ever Questions

1. Never have I ever kissed a stranger.
2. Never have I ever had a crush on someone playing this game right now.
3. Never have I ever ghosted someone I was dating.
4. Never have I ever had a threesome.
5. Never have I ever had a crush on a co-worker.
6. Never have I ever dated or hooked up with someone 15 years older or younger than me.
7. Never have I ever fallen in love at first sight.
8. Never have I ever flirted with a bartender or barista.
9. Never have I ever been in an open relationship.
10. Never have I ever faked an orgasm.
11. Never have I ever gotten a hicky.
12. Never have I ever had sex in a car or public place.
13. Never have I ever had sex in a public place.

Questions About Travel and Adventure

1. Never have I ever left the country.
2. Never have I ever taken a solo trip.
3. Never have I ever gone skydiving.
4. Never have I ever been on a yacht.
5. Never have I ever ridden first class.
6. Never have I ever been scuba diving.
7. Never have I ever been snowboarding.
8. Never have I ever been on a cruise.
9. Never have I ever been in a hot air balloon.
10. Never have I ever gone whale watching.
11. Never have I ever swam across a lake.
12. Never have I ever climbed a mountain.
13. Never have I ever ridden a camel.
14. Never have I ever ridden an elephant.
15. Never have I ever been to more than 30 countries.
16. Never have I ever ridden in a submarine.
17. Never have I ever been in a cave.
18. Never have I ever attended a wedding in another country.
19. Never have I ever been to a major festival like Coachella.
20. Never have I ever lost a personal item in another country.
21. Never have I ever been to a major sports final (e.g., Super Bowl, World Cup).

Funniest Questions to Ask

1. Never have I ever worn socks with sandals.
2. Never have I ever tripped in public and acted like it was intentional.
3. Never have I ever laughed so hard I spit out my drink.
4. Never have I ever walked into a glass door.
5. Never have I ever tried to impress someone and failed miserably.
6. Never have I ever worn clothes inside out and didn’t notice.
7. Never have I ever tried to pull a push door.
8. Never have I ever mixed up my left and right.
9. Never have I ever gotten stuck in a piece of clothing while trying it on.
10. Never have I ever danced in an elevator.
11. Never have I ever had a funny misunderstanding.
12. Never have I ever tried to sound smart and made a fool of myself.
13. Never have I ever walked out of the restroom with toilet paper stuck to my shoe.
14. Never have I ever accidentally waved at a stranger thinking I knew them.
15. Never have I ever sent an embarrassing autocorrect.

Best Questions to Get to Know Someone

1. Never have I ever volunteered for a cause I care about.
2. Never have I ever taken care of a sick friend or family member.
3. Never have I ever pursued a hobby just for myself.
4. Never have I ever taken a risk that was completely worth it.
5. Never have I ever changed someone’s mind about something important.
6. Never have I ever donated something meaningful to me.
7. Never have I ever learned something new just from listening to a friend.
8. Never have I ever helped a stranger in need.
9. Never have I ever taken a big leap of faith in love or career.
10. Never have I ever chosen a path less traveled by others.
11. Never have I ever stood up for someone else in public.
12. Never have I ever adopted a pet.
13. Never have I ever worked a job that changed my perspective on life.
14. Never have I ever learned a language to better communicate with someone.
15. Never have I ever moved to a new city for a fresh start.

Questions to About Behavior and Ethics

1. Never have I ever cheated on a test.
2. Never have I ever lied to my spouse about something important.
3. Never have I ever dined and dashed.
4. Never have I ever used a fake ID.
5. Never have I ever snooped through someone’s phone.
6. Never have I ever broken the law.
7. Never have I ever lied to someone playing this game right now.
8. Never have I ever ended a relationship over text.
9. Never have I ever drunk texted an ex.
10. Never have I ever lied about my relationship status.
11. Never have I ever lied about myself on a dating app.
12. Never have I ever started a rumor.
13. Never have I ever broken a promise.
14. Never have I ever lied on my resume.
15. Never have I ever gambled.
16. Never have I ever broken a bone.
17. Never have I ever run a red light.
18. Never have I ever lied to get out of plans.
19. Never have I ever convinced a friend to dump their partner.
20. Never have I ever lied about my income.
21. Never have I ever fought in public.
22. Never have I ever snooped through a host’s bathroom without them knowing.

Questions About Life Experiences and Challenges

1. Never have I ever gotten into a car crash.
2. Never have I ever skinny-dipped.
3. Never have I ever dyed my hair.
4. Never have I ever had a cosmetic procedure done.
5. Never have I ever gotten a tattoo.
6. Never have I ever gotten a piercing.
7. Never have I ever Googled myself.
8. Never have I ever had a tweet retweeted by a celebrity.
9. Never have I ever tried psychedelics.
10. Never have I ever gotten stitches.
11. Never have I ever gotten stuck in an elevator.
12. Never have I ever had a bad allergic reaction.
13. Never have I ever worn glasses with fake lenses.
14. Never have I ever had a regret.
15. Never have I ever wished I had a different life.
16. Never have I ever had my heart broken.
17. Never have I ever broken someone’s heart.
18. Never have I ever given up on a dream.
19. Never have I ever cried at work.
20. Never have I ever lived alone.
21. Never have I ever won a contest.
22. Never have I ever written a poem.
23. Never have I ever had an article published.
24. Never have I ever won a significant amount of money in a lottery.
25. Never have I ever had a video go viral.
26. Never have I ever made a significant scientific discovery.
27. Never have I ever applied for a patent.
28. Never have I ever won a photography contest.

Questions About Social & Leisure Activities

1. Never have I ever regifted something.
2. Never have I ever met a celebrity.
3. Never have I ever tried a trendy diet.
4. Never have I ever finished a TV series in a day.
5. Never have I ever spent the whole day in my pajamas.
6. Never have I ever gone to court.
7. Never have I ever blocked a friend or family member on social media.
8. Never have I ever smoked a cigarette.
9. Never have I ever done a prank call.
10. Never have I ever attended a masquerade.
11. Never have I ever been on a TV or radio show.
12. Never have I ever played in a band.
13. Never have I ever attended a comic con.
14. Never have I ever sung karaoke in front of a crowd.
15. Never have I ever attended an opera.
16. Never have I ever been part of a book club.
17. Never have I ever participated in a talent show.
18. Never have I ever attended a TED Talk.
19. Never have I ever been in a choir.
20. Never have I ever been part of a historical reenactment.
21. Never have I ever had a part in a movie.
22. Never have I ever painted a portrait.
23. Never have I ever been involved in a TV commercial.
24. Never have I ever been to a drive-in movie.
25. Never have I ever attended a virtual reality experience.
26. Never have I ever participated in a protest.
27. Never have I ever participated in a flash mob.
28. Never have I ever been in a food fight.
29. Never have I ever ridden a mechanical bull.
30. Never have I ever attended a murder mystery dinner.
31. Never have I ever been to a silent retreat.
32. Never have I ever baked my own bread.
33. Never have I ever taken a pottery class.
34. Never have I ever gone vegan.
35. Never have I ever made a candle.
36. Never have I ever built a model airplane.
37. Never have I ever written a fan letter.
38. Never have I ever milked a cow.
39. Never have I ever participated in competitive eating.
40. Never have I ever caught a fish.
41. Never have I ever practiced yoga regularly.
42. Never have I ever completed a jigsaw puzzle with more than 1000 pieces.
43. Never have I ever volunteered at a shelter.
44. Never have I ever adopted an endangered animal.
45. Never have I ever owned more than 10 pets at once.
46. Never have I ever owned an exotic pet.
47. Never have I ever rescued an animal.
48. Never have I ever lived on a farm.
49. Never have I ever had a pet reptile.

Best Totally Random Questions

1. Never have I ever ignored the expiration date on a food label.
2. Never have I ever thought a cartoon character was hot.
3. Never have I ever peed my pants as an adult.
4. Never have I ever left a negative review.
5. Never have I ever fought someone in public.
6. Never have I ever been fired from a job.
7. Never have I ever fainted.
8. Never have I ever eaten dog or cat food.
9. Never have I ever cut my own bangs.
10. Never have I ever eaten a coworker’s lunch from the office fridge.
11. Never have I ever had credit card debt.
12. Never have I ever gone commando.
13. Never have I ever been to a strip club.
14. Never have I ever pretended to be sick to get out of work.
15. Never have I ever stayed awake for 24 hours or more.
16. Never have I ever worn the same outfit two days in a row.
17. Never have I ever read an entire book in a day.
18. Never have I ever accidentally said “I love you” to someone.
19. Never have I ever met someone at a bar.
20. Never have I ever been on a blind date.
21. Never have I ever had a paranormal experience.
22. Never have I ever completed a marathon.
23. Never have I ever learned a martial art.
24. Never have I ever had a surprise party thrown for me.
25. Never have I ever been detained by police.
26. Never have I ever been part of a jury.
27. Never have I ever been recognized in public.
28. Never have I ever been to a fortune teller.
29. Never have I ever built a robot.
30. Never have I ever been hypnotized.
31. Never have I ever lost a bet.

Never Have I Ever Questions for Families

1. Never have I ever forgotten my homework.
2. Never have I ever read a book in one day.
3. Never have I ever learned to play a musical instrument.
4. Never have I ever built something with LEGO.
5. Never have I ever collected stamps, coins, or trading cards.
6. Never have I ever been to a summer camp.
7. Never have I ever made a friendship bracelet.
8. Never have I ever scored a goal in soccer.
9. Never have I ever taken a dance class.
10. Never have I ever ridden a horse.
11. Never have I ever gone hiking with my family.
12. Never have I ever done a cartwheel.
13. Never have I ever dressed up as a superhero.
14. Never have I ever had a pillow fight.
15. Never have I ever built a fort in my living room.
16. Never have I ever had a pet fish.
17. Never have I ever won a game of hide and seek.
18. Never have I ever tried sushi.
19. Never have I ever cooked a meal with my parents.
20. Never have I ever eaten breakfast for dinner.
21. Never have I ever helped bake cookies.
22. Never have I ever tried a food I thought I wouldn’t like and ended up liking it.
23. Never have I ever been on a plane.
24. Never have I ever visited a zoo.
25. Never have I ever seen the ocean.
26. Never have I ever been to a national park.
27. Never have I ever gone on a road trip.
28. Never have I ever stayed up until midnight on New Year’s Eve.
29. Never have I ever gone trick-or-treating.
30. Never have I ever opened a present before Christmas morning.
31. Never have I ever made my own Halloween costume.
32. Never have I ever thrown a surprise party for someone.
33. Never have I ever made a new friend at school.
34. Never have I ever told a secret to my best friend.
35. Never have I ever been to a friend’s birthday party.
36. Never have I ever shared my lunch with a friend.
37. Never have I ever been to a sleepover.
38. Never have I ever planted a tree.
39. Never have I ever slept under the stars.
40. Never have I ever built a snowman.
41. Never have I ever ridden in a limousine.

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